His wife dislikes that he fulfill his mother's needs, so what is the advice?
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The Shaykh:
May Allah welcome you.
The presenter:
Your love for me is for the sake of Allah, O Shaykh.
The Shaykh:
It is not enough to see apostasy in that.
The presenter:
Listen, your question, O Abdullah.
The questioner:
I have two questions, O Shaykh. The first is regarding a man: what does he do with his wife who dislikes or gets angry when he fulfills his mother's needs, for example? She gets angry, his wife, even though he has not been short with her in any way whatsoever regarding their livelihood, treatment, or good conduct with her. His first question, may Allah protect you, he says: What do I do with my wife if she dislikes my dealings with my mother and I fulfill her needs, even though I am fair to this wife and not short with her?
The Shaykh:
Fulfill your mother's needs, and you will be rewarded, and this is part of dutifulness. Do not pay attention to the fact that the wife dislikes this or does not want it; do not pay attention to this, because she is willing for you to commit sin and sever ties, so do not pay attention to her, and continue in your dutifulness to your mother. Yes.
May Allah welcome you.
The presenter:
Your love for me is for the sake of Allah, O Shaykh.
The Shaykh:
It is not enough to see apostasy in that.
The presenter:
Listen, your question, O Abdullah.
The questioner:
I have two questions, O Shaykh. The first is regarding a man: what does he do with his wife who dislikes or gets angry when he fulfills his mother's needs, for example? She gets angry, his wife, even though he has not been short with her in any way whatsoever regarding their livelihood, treatment, or good conduct with her. His first question, may Allah protect you, he says: What do I do with my wife if she dislikes my dealings with my mother and I fulfill her needs, even though I am fair to this wife and not short with her?
The Shaykh:
Fulfill your mother's needs, and you will be rewarded, and this is part of dutifulness. Do not pay attention to the fact that the wife dislikes this or does not want it; do not pay attention to this, because she is willing for you to commit sin and sever ties, so do not pay attention to her, and continue in your dutifulness to your mother. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، زوجته تكره أن يقوم بقضاء حوائج أمه، فما النصيحة؟ - الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com (0:14)
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