Advice regarding family disputes, and a warning against those who stoke these disputes

Question:
May Allah reward you with good, and may He do you good. Some of these family disputes reflect on the wives in their unawareness, and perhaps they are victims of them. Is there a word to say? May Allah reward you with good?

Answer:
There is no doubt that disputes between families cause harms; they cause severance of ties between relatives, and they cause hatred between believers and between neighbors. They may cause divorce and the scattering of families, and separation between a man and his wife. In them are great harms. For this reason, Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He, says: with a charity, or a good deed, or reconciliation between people. So it is obligatory to reconcile between those who are in conflict and those who disagree, not to stoke the dispute between them or distort things between them. And He, Glorified and Exalted is He, says: . And the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, the corruption of relations is the shaver. I do not mean it shaves the hair, but rather it shaves the religion." And the corruption of relations carries great danger and great harms, especially between spouses, and within the same family, and between a parent and his children. So it is obligatory to reconcile between people and to settle the dispute. It is forbidden for talebearers and those who sow discord to intervene between people, for in this there is a great sin. And the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: . And Allah, Exalted and Majestic is He, says: . Yes.