How to deal with a wife's father if he has a bad character
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The questioner:
He says: Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: I am married, and praise be to Allah, to a righteous woman, but her father has a very bad character toward me, and he interferes in what is between me and her, and he has harmed me greatly. His question is: Is it permissible for me to curse him day and night, even though I still owe him the deferred portion of her mahr? And what do you advise me?
The Shaykh:
Even though.
The questioner:
I still owe him the deferred portion of her mahr, so what do you advise me, your honor?
The Shaykh:
By Allah, I advise you to be patient and to seek reward from Allah, and to treat him with good character, so that perhaps he will be ashamed, so that perhaps he will be ashamed, meaning, be patient and treat him with what is best. Yes.
He says: Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: I am married, and praise be to Allah, to a righteous woman, but her father has a very bad character toward me, and he interferes in what is between me and her, and he has harmed me greatly. His question is: Is it permissible for me to curse him day and night, even though I still owe him the deferred portion of her mahr? And what do you advise me?
The Shaykh:
Even though.
The questioner:
I still owe him the deferred portion of her mahr, so what do you advise me, your honor?
The Shaykh:
By Allah, I advise you to be patient and to seek reward from Allah, and to treat him with good character, so that perhaps he will be ashamed, so that perhaps he will be ashamed, meaning, be patient and treat him with what is best. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، [2555 -2802] كيف التعامل مع والد الزوجة إذا كان سيء الخلق - الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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