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﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

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What is your advice to the caller who says, “If you see a woman displaying her adornment, spit in her face and say to her, ‘O enemy of Allah’”?

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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, I listened to one of the callers who said in one of his lectures, “If you see a woman displaying her adornment, spit in her face and say to her, ‘O enemy of Allah.’” What is your opinion of this statement? Especially since it is recorded and is being circulated among many people.

Answer:
This is not part of calling to Allah the Exalted; this is violence, which is not permissible. If you see a woman uncovering her head, say, “May Allah guide you” or “May Allah forgive you.” This is not permissible. Speak to her with kind words and words that enter her heart. As for meeting her with violence and harshness, Allah the Exalted says:
Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best.ادْعُ إِلَىٰ سَبِيلِ رَبِّكَ بِالْحِكْمَةِ وَالْمَوْعِظَةِ الْحَسَنَةِ وَجَادِلْهُم بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ
[An-Nahl 16:125]
Therefore, violence is not permissible in calling to Allah or in enjoining good and forbidding evil, because this generates evil and causes the woman or others to resist or retaliate with something worse. So it is required of this speaker that he correct his words and that he not say such things. This is not among the methodologies of da'wah.
Allah the Exalted said to His Prophet:
So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matterفَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ وَلَوْ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ الْقَلْبِ لَانفَضُّوا مِنْ حَوْلِكَ فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الْأَمْرِ
[Ali 'Imran 3:159]
This is in the category of reconciliation and bringing hearts to good, and not driving them away. When Allah sent Musa and Harun (peace be upon them) to the most powerful person on earth, Pharaoh, who claimed lordship, He said:
And speak to him with gentle speech that perhaps he may be reminded or fear [Allah]."فَقُولَا لَهُ قَوْلًا لَّيِّنًا لَّعَلَّهُ يَتَذَكَّرُ أَوْ يَخْشَىٰ
[Taha 20:44]
If this is the case with Pharaoh, how much more so with the other sinners among the Muslims? Such things are not permissible. Yes.
Source قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، ما نصيحتكم لمن يقول من الدعاة «إذا رأيت متبرجة فابصق في وجهها، وقل لها يا عدوة الله»؟ — youtube.com

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