Speaking about the etiquette of asking questions and not repeating them
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The student : Shaykh, do you remember, the first time I came to Jordan, I called you to ask you about the case of a fasting man who kissed his wife and then ejaculated? I didn't understand, I mean... I didn't understand anything. So I asked you, I mean, you... I asked you, I mean, there is no detail in the series that if he kissed and touched and then ejaculated, but the speech is understood, it is clear, I mean, but I didn't have understanding. So I told myself, go back, the speech is written in Arabic, not in Albanian. So, glory to Allah, I was upset that I didn't know.The Shaykh : I guided you that time, but I knew that you are a Shaykh who serves the Sunnah and so on. So I say, you are now closing the phone, you are repeating speech that there is no need to repeat, but a lack of understanding leads to such things.
The Shaykh : Until when do I have to bear it, and she keeps repeating, "I did not associate partners with Allah, and it is not shirk," and so on, why?
The student : It is true, I mean.
The Shaykh : My brother, this matter, he said: "He who has not tasted the bitterness does not know what the story is." Yes, we are tested here every night. If it were not for me being here, this one would get drunk and it would be over, and he would collapse on...
The student : You are correct.
The Shaykh : As the poet said:
"We have companions whose hearing we do not tire of *** Safe in absence and in presence."
The Shaykh : What do we need these people for? But no, I believe they have a right over me, but this right is not the extent that you want, without blame, you and others who have not tasted the bitterness and therefore do not know what the story is.
The student : I swear by Allah, Shaykh, I know some of what I have seen, so how about what is hidden from me.
The Shaykh : May Allah reward you.
The student : Yes, but I remember, I mean, sometimes a person finds himself patient, and sometimes his self, I mean, becomes narrow.
The Shaykh : No, I am patient by the favor of Allah, I mean, it is true, but the matter has limits, it has limits. I am a human being, I am not a stone, especially since I imagine that now is the time for asking questions.
The Shaykh : Until when do I have to bear it, and she keeps repeating, "I did not associate partners with Allah, and it is not shirk," and so on, why?
The student : It is true, I mean.
The Shaykh : My brother, this matter, he said: "He who has not tasted the bitterness does not know what the story is." Yes, we are tested here every night. If it were not for me being here, this one would get drunk and it would be over, and he would collapse on...
The student : You are correct.
The Shaykh : As the poet said:
"We have companions whose hearing we do not tire of *** Safe in absence and in presence."
The Shaykh : What do we need these people for? But no, I believe they have a right over me, but this right is not the extent that you want, without blame, you and others who have not tasted the bitterness and therefore do not know what the story is.
The student : I swear by Allah, Shaykh, I know some of what I have seen, so how about what is hidden from me.
The Shaykh : May Allah reward you.
The student : Yes, but I remember, I mean, sometimes a person finds himself patient, and sometimes his self, I mean, becomes narrow.
The Shaykh : No, I am patient by the favor of Allah, I mean, it is true, but the matter has limits, it has limits. I am a human being, I am not a stone, especially since I imagine that now is the time for asking questions.
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