How is the first exit from the state of ihram and the complete exit from the state of ihram accomplished in Hajj?

Question:
This hadith of Ibn 'Abbas is disconnected: "When you have stoned the pillars, everything is permitted to you except women"?

Answer:
The first exit from the state of ihram is by stoning the pillars, according to a group of scholars, and this is the strong position; because it came in the hadith of Ibn 'Abbas, and it also came in the hadith of Umm Salama.
Q: What is the disconnection in it?
A: The hadith: ... has some weakness in it, and the action of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was that Aisha only applied perfume to him after the stoning, for after he had stoned, he ordered the barber to shave his head, and he said: I applied perfume to him before he went to Makkah.
This is a matter of precaution: , delaying the exit from the state of ihram until one has both stoned and shaved is more cautious, and whoever exits from the state of ihram after the stoning owes nothing, if Allah wills, except for intercourse, for intercourse is after the stoning and after shaving or shortening the hair and after the circumambulation. The complete exit from the state of ihram is after the three: after the stoning, after shaving or shortening the hair, and after the circumambulation. I do not know of any disagreement among the scholars on this; by their consensus, the complete exit from the state of ihram is after the three.
Q: ... Aisha for the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) indicates that it is after the first exit from the state of ihram?
A: After he had stoned and shaved.
Q: At the end of the hadith of Ibn 'Umar, the author said: and this is evidence for the obligation of shaving?
A: Because the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered shaving, he ordered the Companions to shave, he ordered them to stone and shave, so this indicates the obligation of shaving. So among the obligations of Hajj or 'Umrah is shaving or shortening the hair.