Discussion on the ruling regarding the bride wearing gold-plated jewelry at her wedding.
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The Shaykh : Alright; and regarding the matter of gold, is the gold finished?
The questioner : As for the gold, it is what she requests, but I mean, a girl naturally requests it, so as long as the girl is from my side, certainly she will not... because, by the grace of Allah, we are convinced.
Another questioner : You need to tighten it up a bit.
The questioner : The matter of gold, gold-plated items, and these things.
The Shaykh : We are not talking about you right now.
The questioner : Ah, regarding the husband, I mean.
The Shaykh: May Allah guide you.
The questioner : It is not a custom, my sir, for the same girl who requests this talk; the husband does not force her, it is in his interest that she does not wear it.
The Shaykh : But the horse is from the rider.
The questioner : It is in his interest that she does not wear it.
Another questioner : So this would be from his side.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner : Because it is from his side.
Another questioner : No, by Allah, one loves it.
The Shaykh : No, this is a problem, you are speaking words that are not in your interest, neither socially nor religiously. Does the girl not adorn herself?
The questioner : She adorns herself, of course.
The Shaykh : Adornment does not require cost.
The questioner : Of course, it requires cost.
The Shaykh : Alright; the issue must be only about the appearance of the adornment; is it gold-plated or not gold-plated? As for adornment, it is necessary.
The questioner : This is certainly necessary.
The Shaykh : Alright; but the Shaykh is not yet convinced by this matter.
Another questioner : How?
Another questioner : ... .
The questioner : We... as you say, this father differs from the son, but the father does not force ideas, just as they are in him, to be on the son, and the son, it is true, we must listen to him; meaning, we—for example—believe that it is not permissible to wear bracelets, but it is possible that she wears something more expensive than bracelets.
Another questioner : As you believe.
The questioner : Ah, my sir, these things, and then things like logos and no logos, and all these things that people almost do.
Another questioner : All these things are innovations, usually from disbelief.
The questioner : It needs to be arranged.
Another questioner : ... .
Another questioner : In the way that you see... Islamic.
Another questioner : ...the Sunnah.
Another questioner : As you say, the Shaykh is a married Salafi.
... .
Another questioner : So here we have settled on the fact that the first thing...
Another questioner : ...one by one.
Another questioner : ... .
...
The questioner : ...on conviction.
Another questioner: All right, in the name of Allah.
The questioner : As for the gold, it is what she requests, but I mean, a girl naturally requests it, so as long as the girl is from my side, certainly she will not... because, by the grace of Allah, we are convinced.
Another questioner : You need to tighten it up a bit.
The questioner : The matter of gold, gold-plated items, and these things.
The Shaykh : We are not talking about you right now.
The questioner : Ah, regarding the husband, I mean.
The Shaykh: May Allah guide you.
The questioner : It is not a custom, my sir, for the same girl who requests this talk; the husband does not force her, it is in his interest that she does not wear it.
The Shaykh : But the horse is from the rider.
The questioner : It is in his interest that she does not wear it.
Another questioner : So this would be from his side.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner : Because it is from his side.
Another questioner : No, by Allah, one loves it.
The Shaykh : No, this is a problem, you are speaking words that are not in your interest, neither socially nor religiously. Does the girl not adorn herself?
The questioner : She adorns herself, of course.
The Shaykh : Adornment does not require cost.
The questioner : Of course, it requires cost.
The Shaykh : Alright; the issue must be only about the appearance of the adornment; is it gold-plated or not gold-plated? As for adornment, it is necessary.
The questioner : This is certainly necessary.
The Shaykh : Alright; but the Shaykh is not yet convinced by this matter.
Another questioner : How?
Another questioner : ... .
The questioner : We... as you say, this father differs from the son, but the father does not force ideas, just as they are in him, to be on the son, and the son, it is true, we must listen to him; meaning, we—for example—believe that it is not permissible to wear bracelets, but it is possible that she wears something more expensive than bracelets.
Another questioner : As you believe.
The questioner : Ah, my sir, these things, and then things like logos and no logos, and all these things that people almost do.
Another questioner : All these things are innovations, usually from disbelief.
The questioner : It needs to be arranged.
Another questioner : ... .
Another questioner : In the way that you see... Islamic.
Another questioner : ...the Sunnah.
Another questioner : As you say, the Shaykh is a married Salafi.
... .
Another questioner : So here we have settled on the fact that the first thing...
Another questioner : ...one by one.
Another questioner : ... .
...
The questioner : ...on conviction.
Another questioner: All right, in the name of Allah.
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