Discussion on the ruling regarding the bride wearing dangling gold jewelry at her wedding.
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The Shaykh : Now, the topic is gold, and what is the limit for gold?
The questioner : As for the gold, it is what she is asking for, but I mean, a girl is asking for it in the first place, so as long as the girl is from my side, definitely I will not... because by the grace of Allah, we are convinced.
Another questioner: Brother, pull her up a bit.
The questioner : The issue of gold, dangling jewelry, and these ornaments.
The Shaykh : We are not talking about you right now.
The questioner : Is it regarding the husband, I mean?
The Shaykh : May Allah guide you.
The questioner : It is not a custom, sir; the same girl who asks for this talk, the husband does not force her; it is in his interest that he not...
The Shaykh : But the horse is from the rider.
The questioner : It is in his interest that she not wear it.
Another questioner: So this would be from his side.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner : Because it is from his side.
Another questioner: No, by Allah, more than one person likes it.
The Shaykh : No, this is a problem; you, for your sake, the talk is not in your interest, neither socially nor religiously; it was enough for the girl to adorn herself.
The questioner : She adorns herself, of course.
The Shaykh : With adornment, you do not want the expense.
The questioner : Of course, she wants the expense.
The Shaykh : Now, so the issue is just the form of the adornment: is it dangling gold or not? As for the adornment itself, it is necessary.
The questioner : This is definitely necessary.
The Shaykh : Now, but the Shaykh, I am not convinced... I am not convinced about this issue.
Another questioner: How?
Another questioner: ...
The questioner : We... money, as you say, this father differs from the son, but the father does not force the son to have the same ideas as he has; so the son, yes, we must listen to him; for example, we believe that it is not permissible to wear bracelets, but she might wear something smaller than bracelets, yes, sir, these are ornaments, and then ornaments like earrings and such, and all these things that people approximately do.
Another questioner: All these things are innovations... from the disbelievers.
The questioner : She needs her adornment.
Another questioner: ...
Another questioner: In the way that you see it... Islamic.
Another questioner: ... the Sunnah.
Another questioner: As you say, the Shaykh is a Salafi and married.
... .
Another questioner: So here we have agreed that the first thing...
Another questioner: ... one by one.
Another questioner: ...
The questioner : ... on conviction.
Another questioner: Let us proceed, in the name of Allah.
The questioner : As for the gold, it is what she is asking for, but I mean, a girl is asking for it in the first place, so as long as the girl is from my side, definitely I will not... because by the grace of Allah, we are convinced.
Another questioner: Brother, pull her up a bit.
The questioner : The issue of gold, dangling jewelry, and these ornaments.
The Shaykh : We are not talking about you right now.
The questioner : Is it regarding the husband, I mean?
The Shaykh : May Allah guide you.
The questioner : It is not a custom, sir; the same girl who asks for this talk, the husband does not force her; it is in his interest that he not...
The Shaykh : But the horse is from the rider.
The questioner : It is in his interest that she not wear it.
Another questioner: So this would be from his side.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner : Because it is from his side.
Another questioner: No, by Allah, more than one person likes it.
The Shaykh : No, this is a problem; you, for your sake, the talk is not in your interest, neither socially nor religiously; it was enough for the girl to adorn herself.
The questioner : She adorns herself, of course.
The Shaykh : With adornment, you do not want the expense.
The questioner : Of course, she wants the expense.
The Shaykh : Now, so the issue is just the form of the adornment: is it dangling gold or not? As for the adornment itself, it is necessary.
The questioner : This is definitely necessary.
The Shaykh : Now, but the Shaykh, I am not convinced... I am not convinced about this issue.
Another questioner: How?
Another questioner: ...
The questioner : We... money, as you say, this father differs from the son, but the father does not force the son to have the same ideas as he has; so the son, yes, we must listen to him; for example, we believe that it is not permissible to wear bracelets, but she might wear something smaller than bracelets, yes, sir, these are ornaments, and then ornaments like earrings and such, and all these things that people approximately do.
Another questioner: All these things are innovations... from the disbelievers.
The questioner : She needs her adornment.
Another questioner: ...
Another questioner: In the way that you see it... Islamic.
Another questioner: ... the Sunnah.
Another questioner: As you say, the Shaykh is a Salafi and married.
... .
Another questioner: So here we have agreed that the first thing...
Another questioner: ... one by one.
Another questioner: ...
The questioner : ... on conviction.
Another questioner: Let us proceed, in the name of Allah.