What are the Islamic etiquettes in wedding celebrations?
Machine translationRead the Arabic original
The questioner: Well, if you please, my master, what we hear from you is different from what we read. For example, the etiquettes of the wedding, the etiquettes of the wedding. As for marriage, when one wants to... No, what Allah willed, we want to try to be, if Allah wills, in the life of the Shaykh, we will marry Ahmad and apply the marriage according to the Sunnah; so how should we do it?
Another questioner : How?
The questioner: ... he tells you.
The Shaykh: How do you want to do it?
The questioner: I mean a wedding feast, and there is no beating of the hand drum.
The Shaykh: Of course, there is beating of the hand drum.
The questioner: There is beating of the hand drum.
Another questioner : For women.
The questioner: Which is not this darbuka, the duff which is a frame with skin on it.
The Shaykh: Yes, that is right, and there are no jingles.
Another questioner: There are no bells.
The questioner: And the women are in their state.
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner: And it is not permissible, as they do of course, for the groom to be seated with the bride in front of them.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah!
Another questioner: And some people take pictures.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah!
Another questioner: Yes.
Another questioner: ... she is undressed again in front of the people... .
Another questioner: ... my master, then.
The Shaykh: How is the group here with you? Are you guaranteeing the aspects, if Allah wills?
The questioner: Ah, of course, these are not the conditions that must be met.
Another questioner: It requires strictness regarding the women.
The Shaykh: ... is your neighbor married?
Another questioner: He is married, but he did this, certainly.
The Shaykh: Ha, so it is done.
Another questioner: But it requires strictness regarding the women, not here with the women.
Another questioner: What about the women.
The questioner: I mean, these conditions must be met.
The Shaykh: ... how did he do it?
Another questioner: He did it better than this.
Another questioner: No, no.
The questioner: How did he do it?
Another questioner: An Islamic marriage.
Another questioner : How?
The questioner: An Islamic marriage, relatively.
Another questioner: They passed it by me and I went to pray 'Isha' at the mosque and came back, you see? After we had gone into the room, the 'Isha' adhan was called, I went to pray at the mosque and came back for the 'Isha' congregation.
Another questioner: They stood you up... you and her.
Another questioner: The people at the mosque would come out and say: He actually got married like this.
Another questioner: You, you were stood up on... you and her? ... you brought a light for the face, fixed.
Another questioner: But I was not raising a beard.
Another questioner: ... he makes us laugh... .
Another questioner: But basically, if it happens a second time, I will not do it, that is all; because.
Another questioner : How?
The questioner: ... he tells you.
The Shaykh: How do you want to do it?
The questioner: I mean a wedding feast, and there is no beating of the hand drum.
The Shaykh: Of course, there is beating of the hand drum.
The questioner: There is beating of the hand drum.
Another questioner : For women.
The questioner: Which is not this darbuka, the duff which is a frame with skin on it.
The Shaykh: Yes, that is right, and there are no jingles.
Another questioner: There are no bells.
The questioner: And the women are in their state.
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner: And it is not permissible, as they do of course, for the groom to be seated with the bride in front of them.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah!
Another questioner: And some people take pictures.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah!
Another questioner: Yes.
Another questioner: ... she is undressed again in front of the people... .
Another questioner: ... my master, then.
The Shaykh: How is the group here with you? Are you guaranteeing the aspects, if Allah wills?
The questioner: Ah, of course, these are not the conditions that must be met.
Another questioner: It requires strictness regarding the women.
The Shaykh: ... is your neighbor married?
Another questioner: He is married, but he did this, certainly.
The Shaykh: Ha, so it is done.
Another questioner: But it requires strictness regarding the women, not here with the women.
Another questioner: What about the women.
The questioner: I mean, these conditions must be met.
The Shaykh: ... how did he do it?
Another questioner: He did it better than this.
Another questioner: No, no.
The questioner: How did he do it?
Another questioner: An Islamic marriage.
Another questioner : How?
The questioner: An Islamic marriage, relatively.
Another questioner: They passed it by me and I went to pray 'Isha' at the mosque and came back, you see? After we had gone into the room, the 'Isha' adhan was called, I went to pray at the mosque and came back for the 'Isha' congregation.
Another questioner: They stood you up... you and her.
Another questioner: The people at the mosque would come out and say: He actually got married like this.
Another questioner: You, you were stood up on... you and her? ... you brought a light for the face, fixed.
Another questioner: But I was not raising a beard.
Another questioner: ... he makes us laugh... .
Another questioner: But basically, if it happens a second time, I will not do it, that is all; because.
Source
www.al-albany.com
The Arabic text is copied verbatim from the original source, without any edits.