What is the ruling on kissing the cheeks and hands of one's father and mother, and is there any evidence for it? And what is the ruling on kissing sisters in the same way?
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The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner: Kissing the mother!
The Shaykh: What do you kiss of the father and mother?!
The questioner: The cheeks, in our case.
The Shaykh: The cheeks, in your case?
The questioner: Yes, the cheeks or the cheeks of the face.
The Shaykh: There is nothing wrong with it.
The questioner: The evidence?!
The Shaykh: As for kissing the hand, there is no basis for it.
The questioner: The evidence for the cheeks?
The Shaykh: The Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) used to kiss his daughter Fatimah.
The questioner: He is talking about the mother!
The Shaykh: I know, but the common cause between the two rulings is the prohibition of marriage.
The questioner: Ah, okay, and the sister, O Shaykh, this question has also been repeated?
The Shaykh: The same answer, the common factor is the prohibition of marriage.
The questioner: Where can we find this, Shaykh: the kissing of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) of his daughter Fatimah?
The Shaykh: In Sunan Abu Dawud, and al-Hakim's al-Mustadrak, and finally in Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad.
The questioner: Okay, O Shaykh, some of the reports from some of the Salaf disliked kissing the sister!
The Shaykh: Yes, that is if there is a likelihood of fitnah, because in this case it is not permissible to shake her hand either, and you might wonder and ask: Is it permissible to shake her hand?! Did I guess?!
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh: That is it, is it permissible to shake her hand?
The questioner: I say: Yes.
The Shaykh: What do you mean, yes, yes?
The questioner: The question is yes, and it is permissible to shake her hand, we say: Yes as well, is there any obstacle to shaking the sister's hand?!
The Shaykh : What is the evidence?
The questioner: The prohibition of marriage.
The Shaykh: - may Allah have mercy on him - , - may Allah have mercy on him - the one who taught you this argument.
The questioner: Amen, O Allah, O Allah, amen.
The Shaykh: Is your question finished?!
The questioner: Ah, O our Shaykh: in al-Hakim, and Sunan Abu Dawud, and finally as he said.
The Shaykh: In Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad.
The Shaykh: No.
The questioner : Yes!
The Shaykh: I made a mistake, the Shaykh did not say it that way!! Read and reflect on how you attributed words to the Shaykh!!
The questioner: I asked you where I can find this hadith?!
The Shaykh: O Shaykh, I am asking you what I asked you? Read what you wrote and see how you attributed words!
The questioner: I say: You said in Sunan Abu Dawud, and al-Hakim, and finally.
The Shaykh: You read what you wrote!!
The questioner: And finally.
The Shaykh: Read what you wrote!
The questioner: I said: The hadithSunan al-Bayhaqi 10:385 in al-Hakim, and "Sunan Abu Dawud".
The Shaykh: Yes, and then?
The questioner: And finally as he said.
The Shaykh: In "Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad".
The Shaykh: I did not say it that way, I said: "Sunan Abu Dawud", and "al-Hakim's al-Mustadrak", and finally.
The questioner: Okay, did we not agree?!
The Shaykh: No, you put things out of order.
The questioner: I wanted to correct it, so I said: Let me read what I wrote.
The Shaykh: Look at the patching, look at the patching, you are a big patcher.
The Shaykh : How?
The questioner: Kissing the mother!
The Shaykh: What do you kiss of the father and mother?!
The questioner: The cheeks, in our case.
The Shaykh: The cheeks, in your case?
The questioner: Yes, the cheeks or the cheeks of the face.
The Shaykh: There is nothing wrong with it.
The questioner: The evidence?!
The Shaykh: As for kissing the hand, there is no basis for it.
The questioner: The evidence for the cheeks?
The Shaykh: The Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) used to kiss his daughter Fatimah.
The questioner: He is talking about the mother!
The Shaykh: I know, but the common cause between the two rulings is the prohibition of marriage.
The questioner: Ah, okay, and the sister, O Shaykh, this question has also been repeated?
The Shaykh: The same answer, the common factor is the prohibition of marriage.
The questioner: Where can we find this, Shaykh: the kissing of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) of his daughter Fatimah?
The Shaykh: In Sunan Abu Dawud, and al-Hakim's al-Mustadrak, and finally in Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad.
The questioner: Okay, O Shaykh, some of the reports from some of the Salaf disliked kissing the sister!
The Shaykh: Yes, that is if there is a likelihood of fitnah, because in this case it is not permissible to shake her hand either, and you might wonder and ask: Is it permissible to shake her hand?! Did I guess?!
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh: That is it, is it permissible to shake her hand?
The questioner: I say: Yes.
The Shaykh: What do you mean, yes, yes?
The questioner: The question is yes, and it is permissible to shake her hand, we say: Yes as well, is there any obstacle to shaking the sister's hand?!
The Shaykh : What is the evidence?
The questioner: The prohibition of marriage.
The Shaykh: - may Allah have mercy on him - , - may Allah have mercy on him - the one who taught you this argument.
The questioner: Amen, O Allah, O Allah, amen.
The Shaykh: Is your question finished?!
The questioner: Ah, O our Shaykh: in al-Hakim, and Sunan Abu Dawud, and finally as he said.
The Shaykh: In Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad.
The Shaykh: No.
The questioner : Yes!
The Shaykh: I made a mistake, the Shaykh did not say it that way!! Read and reflect on how you attributed words to the Shaykh!!
The questioner: I asked you where I can find this hadith?!
The Shaykh: O Shaykh, I am asking you what I asked you? Read what you wrote and see how you attributed words!
The questioner: I say: You said in Sunan Abu Dawud, and al-Hakim, and finally.
The Shaykh: You read what you wrote!!
The questioner: And finally.
The Shaykh: Read what you wrote!
The questioner: I said: The hadith
The kissing of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) of his daughter Fatimah
تقبيل الرسول - صلى الله عليه وسلم - لابنته فاطمةThe Shaykh: Yes, and then?
The questioner: And finally as he said.
The Shaykh: In "Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad".
The Shaykh: I did not say it that way, I said: "Sunan Abu Dawud", and "al-Hakim's al-Mustadrak", and finally.
The questioner: Okay, did we not agree?!
The Shaykh: No, you put things out of order.
The questioner: I wanted to correct it, so I said: Let me read what I wrote.
The Shaykh: Look at the patching, look at the patching, you are a big patcher.
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