Continuation: Which is more deserving of a response when there is a conflict: the invitation of a close relative or a distant relative?

The Shaykh : And explain the reason to him. Say to him: "By Allah, for example, my close relative, my uncle, my father's brother, or my brother invited me. I hope you will allow me to go so that nothing happens in his heart. And the one who invited you first, in such a case, should allow you to go, in order to avert the harm of the oath."

The questioner : In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Your Eminence, there is a woman there.

The Shaykh : What?