Commentary on Iqtida' al-Sirat al-Mustaqim-06a

The reader: "Also, it is narrated from 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, and calls the calls of the Jahiliyyah.

ليس منا من ضرب الخدود ، وشق الجيوب ، ودعا بدعوى الجاهلية

Sunan an-Nasa'i 1862Sahih (Darussalam)

Agreed upon by al-Bukhari and Muslim. And the call of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance is wailing for the deceased, and the call of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance occurs in tribalism
And among this is his statement in what Ahmad narrated from Abu ibn Ka'b that he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

Whoever consoles himself with the consolation of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance, let them bite the private part of his father, and do not be vague

من تعزى بعزاء الجاهلية ، فأعضوه بهنَ أبيه ، ولا تكنوا

As-Sunan al-Kubra lil-Nasa'i 62:283

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The Shaykh : The private part of his father.
The reader: Without the letter ba, without the ba?

The Shaykh : Without the ba, yes.
The reader: I have a copy

The Shaykh : It is the one with us.
The reader: Yes, but what do I read?

The Shaykh : Whatever does not contradict, that is fine.
The reader: "

Whoever consoles himself with the consolation of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance, let them bite the private part of his father, and do not be vague

من تعزى بعزاء الجاهلية ، فأعضوه بهَنِ أبيه ، ولا تكنّوا

As-Sunan al-Kubra lil-Nasa'i 62:283

Also, it is narrated from Abu Malik al-Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) " .

The Shaykh : This is in the case of a calamity, because in the pre-Islamic age of ignorance they did this: they would slap their cheeks, tear their garments, and call out with woe and destruction. Perhaps they would pull out their hair, and perhaps they would wound some part of their body. The important point is that they displayed that they were averse to the divine decree and destiny. So the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) disavowed them. As for whoever consoles himself with the consolation of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance, this includes whoever calls out with a call of tribalism. And among this is boasting about lineages. He says: meaning he mentioned it as if we were saying to him: "Get up and bite your father's private part," indicating from where he came out? From the private part, from the urethra. So how does he console himself with the consolation of the pre-Islamic age of ignorance? How does he boast about himself? How does he boast about his lineage? So the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said: meaning say it in explicit terms. And there is another explicit term regarding the private part, which is known to you. If you wish, say to him: "Bite such-and-such."