What is the meaning of the hadith: (Visit occasionally, and you will increase in love)?

The questioner: Our Shaykh, if you please, the hadith.

The Shaykh : Which hadith?

The questioner: The hadith that I said was authentic: .

The Shaykh : Yes.

The questioner: So explain it?

The Shaykh: Well done, the hadith in reality is: , this is not permissible to force into this occasion; because every matter has its system, that you visit your friend in his house, in his place, in his shop, you may expose him to some embarrassment, but it is not so that you meet him: Peace be upon you, you part from him: Peace be upon you, after a while you meet him: Peace be upon you. My brother, we are seeing some of those called the Sufis and the Tariqis, they sit in the gathering and they complete, they say: Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, a hundred times, a thousand times, ten thousand times, according to what? The plan that was set for them, what? Their Shaykh whom they sanctify, or he holds a misbaha or what he calls a thousand, he hangs it on the ceiling, he gets up at the middle of the night and he counts in it, and so on, and all of this is not reported from the Messenger - peace and blessings be upon him - , but the thing that was reported from the Messenger - peace and blessings be upon him - why do we not use it and not multiply it, and we say: Now we were meeting, why this multiplication? The Messenger said: , this has its occasion.

The questioner: Other etiquettes besides this.

The Shaykh: Well done, well done, may Allah bless you, put your hand here now.