A woman performed 'Umrah without her husband's permission while she was at her brother's house
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A woman asks that she performed 'Umrah with her brother and did not seek her husband's permission, noting that she is living with her family due to a dispute between them; what is the ruling?
If a woman is with her family due to a disagreement between her and her husband, then if the fault lies with him, he has no right over her. If the fault lies with her, she has committed a sin. One must look into the matter; perhaps the fault is his, as he is the one who was defiant, the one who transgressed against her, and the one who neglected her rights, in which case he has no right over her.because of His saying, the Exalted: [al-Baqarah:194] And because He said: [al-Nahl:126] And because He said: [al-Baqarah:228] As for the case where she is the one at fault, she must repent and return to her husband's house.
The questioner: And the 'Umrah?The Shaykh: It is not permissible for her to perform 'Umrah if the fault lies with her, but her 'Umrah is valid.
If a woman is with her family due to a disagreement between her and her husband, then if the fault lies with him, he has no right over her. If the fault lies with her, she has committed a sin. One must look into the matter; perhaps the fault is his, as he is the one who was defiant, the one who transgressed against her, and the one who neglected her rights, in which case he has no right over her.because of His saying, the Exalted:
So whoever has assaulted you, then assault him in the same way that he has assaulted you
فَمَنِ اعْتَدَى عَلَيْكُمْ فَاعْتَدُوا عَلَيْهِ بِمِثْلِ مَا اعْتَدَى عَلَيْكُمْAnd if you punish [an enemy, O believers], punish with an equivalent of that with which you were harmed
وَإِنْ عَاقَبْتُمْ فَعَاقِبُوا بِمِثْلِ مَا عُوقِبْتُمْ بِهِAnd due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them, according to what is reasonable
وَلَهُنَّ مِثْلُ الَّذِي عَلَيْهِنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِThe questioner: And the 'Umrah?The Shaykh: It is not permissible for her to perform 'Umrah if the fault lies with her, but her 'Umrah is valid.