The Woman's Relationship with Her Husband's Satisfaction and Anger
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The hadith of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him): (If a woman dies and her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Paradise) The explicit wording of the hadith is that if a woman dies and her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Paradise.Is the intended meaning of the hadith: Is it true that if a woman dies and her husband is angry with her, she will not enter Paradise?
First: I do not know this hadith.But if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: That a woman treating her husband with kindness until he is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier. This is a matter we must understand. Sometimes texts regarding promises and encouragement state that whoever does such-and-such will enter Paradise, and so on.So the meaning is: That this is a cause, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier that prevents it.For example: It is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): (No servant over whom Allah has placed authority, who dies while being a deceiver to his people, will Allah forbid him from Paradise) meaning: He will be prevented from it. However, there may be a barrier that prevents this threat from taking effect, which is that Allah forgives him. For Allah does not forgive that partners be associated with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And in that case, he does not deserve this threat. Therefore, we must know the difference between something being a cause that may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier.
So we say: If this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: That a woman dying while her husband is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and she may not enter Paradise due to the presence of something else that prevents it.But it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): (If a woman spends the night and her husband is angry with her, then Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He, will be angry with her).
First: I do not know this hadith.But if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: That a woman treating her husband with kindness until he is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier. This is a matter we must understand. Sometimes texts regarding promises and encouragement state that whoever does such-and-such will enter Paradise, and so on.So the meaning is: That this is a cause, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier that prevents it.For example: It is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): (No servant over whom Allah has placed authority, who dies while being a deceiver to his people, will Allah forbid him from Paradise) meaning: He will be prevented from it. However, there may be a barrier that prevents this threat from taking effect, which is that Allah forgives him. For Allah does not forgive that partners be associated with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And in that case, he does not deserve this threat. Therefore, we must know the difference between something being a cause that may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier.
So we say: If this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: That a woman dying while her husband is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and she may not enter Paradise due to the presence of something else that prevents it.But it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): (If a woman spends the night and her husband is angry with her, then Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He, will be angry with her).