Is it true that a woman who dies while her husband is angry with her will not enter Paradise?
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The questioner : The honorable Shaykh, peace be upon you and Allah's mercy and blessings. The hadith of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him): Is this correct?
The Shaykh : First: I do not know this hadith, but if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: that a woman treating her husband with kindness until he is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier. This is a matter we must know. Sometimes texts come in the form of promises and encouragement that whoever does such-and-such will enter Paradise, and the like. The meaning is: that this is a cause, and a cause may not be realized due to a barrier that prevents it. For example: it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him):Sahih Muslim 142a meaning: it prevented him from it, but there may be a barrier that prevents the execution of this threat, which is that Allah forgives him. Indeed, Allah does not forgive that partners be associated with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And in that case, he does not deserve this threat. We must know the difference between something being a cause that may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier.
So we say: if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: that a woman dying while her husband is pleased with her is a cause among the causes of entering Paradise, and she may not enter Paradise due to the presence of something else that prevents it. But it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him):. If she spends the night and her husband is angry with her, then Allah will be angry with her.
If a woman dies and her husband is pleased with her, she enters Paradise
إذا ماتت المرأة وزوجها راضٍ عنها دخلت الجنةThe Shaykh : First: I do not know this hadith, but if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: that a woman treating her husband with kindness until he is pleased with her is one of the causes of entering Paradise, and a cause may not be realized due to the presence of a barrier. This is a matter we must know. Sometimes texts come in the form of promises and encouragement that whoever does such-and-such will enter Paradise, and the like. The meaning is: that this is a cause, and a cause may not be realized due to a barrier that prevents it. For example: it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him):
There is none amongst the bondsmen who was entrusted with the affairs of his subjects and he died in such a state that he was dishonest in his dealings with those over whom he ruled except that Paradise is forbidden for him.
ما من عبد استرعاه الله على رعية يموت يوم يموت وهو غاشٌ لرعيته إلا حرم الله عليه الجنةSo we say: if this hadith is authentic, the meaning is: that a woman dying while her husband is pleased with her is a cause among the causes of entering Paradise, and she may not enter Paradise due to the presence of something else that prevents it. But it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him):