I said to the woman's guardian: You should wait two or three days, then think carefully about this matter until the disputes and anger subside. Then, if you are determined to divorce your daughter, do so, for the matter is in your hands. What is your opinion of this advice?
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Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, my teacher, and may Allah reward you with good for these precious, precious words.
The Shaykh : May Allah bless you
Al-Halabi : May Allah reward you with good. My Shaykh, my second question was planned to be something else, but I have changed it now.
The Shaykh : Good, if Allah wills.
Al-Halabi : But I changed it to another question.
The Shaykh : We say it is good.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you. It is so. After hearing these words of good, which we hope will be a key to good and that Allah will make you keys to good and locks against evil.
The Shaykh : Yes, yes. May Allah reward you with good.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, my Shaykh. I said a moment ago, among the things I said, that our brother the suitor wants the girl and wants your closeness and wants such and such. But as long as you are determined, we cannot marry her off despite the noses.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is right.
Al-Halabi : And the matter is in your hands. But I have a request. I told him I have a request.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is right.
Al-Halabi : And this request is that you wait two or three days and let the situation in the house calm down and things settle and you rest mentally. Then, after these two or three days, if nothing has changed and we want the divorce, then it is yours.
The Shaykh : This is as it is said: "If the shoe fits, wear it." Perhaps you remember that I advised the father and the daughter to wait.
Al-Halabi : Correct. This is only for the sake of confirmation, so that the words are engraved as a living reality in the minds of all listeners. And I add to that something else, which is our advice to the girl's father, who is a beloved brother, may Allah reward him with good, to have this tape listened to by all his family.
The Shaykh : You have done well. And I hope that Allah will write good for everyone.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, my Shaykh, and may Allah reward you with much good.
The Shaykh : May Allah preserve you
Al-Halabi : And if something new happens, we will inform you, if Allah wills, and it will be what Allah wills of good for everyone.
The Shaykh : May Allah return you to the truth, if Allah wills.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, and peace be upon you and Allah's mercy and blessings.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace and Allah's mercy and blessings and His forgiveness.
The Shaykh : May Allah bless you
Al-Halabi : May Allah reward you with good. My Shaykh, my second question was planned to be something else, but I have changed it now.
The Shaykh : Good, if Allah wills.
Al-Halabi : But I changed it to another question.
The Shaykh : We say it is good.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you. It is so. After hearing these words of good, which we hope will be a key to good and that Allah will make you keys to good and locks against evil.
The Shaykh : Yes, yes. May Allah reward you with good.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, my Shaykh. I said a moment ago, among the things I said, that our brother the suitor wants the girl and wants your closeness and wants such and such. But as long as you are determined, we cannot marry her off despite the noses.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is right.
Al-Halabi : And the matter is in your hands. But I have a request. I told him I have a request.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is right.
Al-Halabi : And this request is that you wait two or three days and let the situation in the house calm down and things settle and you rest mentally. Then, after these two or three days, if nothing has changed and we want the divorce, then it is yours.
The Shaykh : This is as it is said: "If the shoe fits, wear it." Perhaps you remember that I advised the father and the daughter to wait.
Al-Halabi : Correct. This is only for the sake of confirmation, so that the words are engraved as a living reality in the minds of all listeners. And I add to that something else, which is our advice to the girl's father, who is a beloved brother, may Allah reward him with good, to have this tape listened to by all his family.
The Shaykh : You have done well. And I hope that Allah will write good for everyone.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, my Shaykh, and may Allah reward you with much good.
The Shaykh : May Allah preserve you
Al-Halabi : And if something new happens, we will inform you, if Allah wills, and it will be what Allah wills of good for everyone.
The Shaykh : May Allah return you to the truth, if Allah wills.
Al-Halabi : May Allah preserve you, and peace be upon you and Allah's mercy and blessings.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace and Allah's mercy and blessings and His forgiveness.
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