Benefits of the Hadith: (… Ibn 'Abbas said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the effeminate men and the masculine women, and said:
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The Shaykh : In any case, the hadith indicates that it is obligatory to drive effeminate men out of the homes, and to drive masculine women out of the homes as well. So one should beware of the masculine woman, because the masculine woman corrupts the women of the house and removes their modesty, because she is masculine. And perhaps, if she is masculine, she may fall in love with some of the women and attempt to commit fitnah with them through lesbianism, or kissing, or embracing. And this is something observed. I was told by some women that some women at a wedding started dancing, and some of the women could not control themselves until they stood up and kissed this dancing woman. And there is no doubt that she failed to control herself. And I used to initially downplay the matter of dancing at weddings, but after this story, I used to prohibit this and say there is no dancing, because it stirs up what is latent. So the important thing is that such women are driven out of the homes.
Likewise, the effeminate men are driven out of the homes because they are a harm. This effeminate man comes imitating the woman in her voice, her walk, and her demeanor, but he has a calamity; he has what is in men of desire for women. And this is a great fitnah. He is most like the hypocrite; the hypocrite displays Islam, right? and conceals disbelief. And this man displays that he has no desire for women and that his nature is the nature of a woman, but he has the calamity. Yes.
Likewise, the effeminate men are driven out of the homes because they are a harm. This effeminate man comes imitating the woman in her voice, her walk, and her demeanor, but he has a calamity; he has what is in men of desire for women. And this is a great fitnah. He is most like the hypocrite; the hypocrite displays Islam, right? and conceals disbelief. And this man displays that he has no desire for women and that his nature is the nature of a woman, but he has the calamity. Yes.
