Mentioning Some of the Evils of Free Mixing

The Shaykh : That is why today there is no difference between women and men. This is a male employee and this is a female employee. And what is seen now is a very strange phenomenon. I fear, and I fear greatly, that a day will come when the female employees in the offices will be more numerous than the male employees.
The student : It exists, our Shaykh, in the offices.

The Shaykh : We have a modest post office there in "Southern Marka." When I first lived there, I found that there was not a single woman in that post office. Now, if you enter, you will not find a single man.
The student : Regarding this manager.

The Shaykh : Regarding this manager, yes. If this manager were saturated with the correct Islamic creed and proper Islamic upbringing, he would reflect the matter perfectly...
The student : He, our Shaykh, did not say this. It was the brother, Ghassan, who said, "This is a joke..."
Another student: ...
The student : No, allow me, my brother. Then I made a mistake, meaning I thought... And our Shaykh, just three or four years ago, remember when 'Abd al-Wahhab al-Majali (may Allah have mercy on him)—'Abd al-Majali—made a decision to reduce the number of female employees in the Ministry of Education.

The Shaykh : What Allah willed!
The student : Yes, and who does the decision mean? It applies to the married, not the single. Yes.

The Shaykh : Strange.
The student : So, after only two days, he apologized and said, "I did not mean it." He denied it because a great commotion arose in the country, and he was heavily criticized on this topic, so he did not adopt it. Because the jobs have become, meaning, women have become the same as men in jobs and in offices. Now, in the ministries' offices, perhaps the Central Bank—I do not know if all the women are more numerous than the men, I think so—in the institutions that have women, the Central Bank, all the banks generally, yes, and then... or His Excellency, it is not like that... meaning, men are the majority in three institutions. I heard, I do not know, the Central Bank.
Another student : ... regarding the departments, for example... more than.
The student : ... more of the airlines' troubles.
Another student : The Messenger (peace be upon him) said in the hadith: , and he also said: . So the Shaytan lures people step by step. And the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) informed us that in the last of time, zina will spread until if there were in the previous nations someone who would commit adultery with his mother on the roadside, he would do it , and the best of people is the one who says, "You will not be able to do it a little."
The student : And now this exists in other Muslim lands, not just us. We are walking on the path, meaning we are taking the same steps that other Islamic peoples have taken, and we see in them tabarruj (display of adornment) and exposure, and that there is nothing wrong with it.
Another student : I say that the woman is now the one who approaches and causes the man to fall into sin more than the man. The woman is the one who justifies for the man falling into sin, and she is the one who emboldens him to do it now. It used to be the man who would go to her, but now it is she who goes to the man.

The Shaykh: Allahu Akbar.
The student : Because this is the reality...
Another student : When the women who display their adornment became many, and there was a lot of beauty present, he falls for whoever is more beautiful than the women. She started chasing him in this matter.
The student : I say something else. As far as I have heard, some women spend money on their lovers.

The Shaykh : Spend on what?
The student : On their lovers.

The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah.
The student: Yes.

The Shaykh : And this money came from these jobs.
The student : And this exists in Arab society by imitation.
Another student : People who are Muslims, who are called Muslims, that there is no harm in doing it.
The student : No, no, I am speaking about Western society. Meaning, if a man takes his mistress and lover to his house and lives with her as a wife, and then a child is born to them, it is attributed to them, and then he cannot deny it. Meaning, if he spends, I do not know, a year or two, I do not know, she also inherits from him if he dies.

The Shaykh: Allahu Akbar.
The student : She inherits his wealth, and she is not under his protection (dhimmah).
Another student : Even if he marries her in Islamic societies, meaning the society that is called Muslim, as a second wife, it is forbidden for him to take her. But if she lives with him in the house as a friend, and even if she gives birth, there is no harm in her giving birth to his child. From this man, this is his mistress, there is no harm. But as a second wife, he is held accountable, he is held accountable.

The Shaykh : Allahu Akbar, the work of the Jews.
The student : ... .
Another student: ...
The student : No, our Shaykh, also now, meaning all the causes, all the inducements to corruption for the family are studied in the university.

The Shaykh : All what?
The student : All the inducements to destruction.

The Shaykh: Allahu Akbar.
The student : The destruction of the family is studied in the universities. For example, remember this doctor who had a survey once.
Another student : Salim Nasser.
The student : He is wicked, but there is one named Doctor, I do not know what...
Another student : Doctor 'Anish.
The student : By Allah, I do not know. Meaning, he had a poll in the university and distributed it to the students, andThe student : In the poll, meaning, for example, what kind of man do you like to marry? Then, for example, do you like him to have softness and manliness? For example, do you like him to be... until he reaches the private parts and the shameful parts.

The Shaykh: Allahu Akbar.
The student : And he distributed this survey to the university to the students, andThe student : And the percentage of responses inThe student : The responses was more than the percentage of students. Modesty prevailed over the students more thanThe student : The responses. There is something frightening.
Another student : My Shaykh, in the hadith , because when we see what is happening in the West and we know that by the text of this hadith we will fall into it, the person is admonished by it.

The Shaykh: Allah is the Greatest!
The student : I, in the year sixty-seven, read about it. It was old. I had a study for the handover of a building for student enrollment. Then I went to Britain to take surveys and information from one of the universities. They told us a story to boast about the building, as if sixty percent of the university girls take birth control pills from the university doctor.

The Shaykh: Allah is the Greatest!
The student : This story was in the year seventy-six.
Another student : Now what happened? They left the birth control pills.
The student : Now in the secondary and preparatory schools...

The Shaykh : They put what?
The student : The pill, so that they take birth control in children's schools.

The Shaykh : This is facilitating zina. Allahu Akbar!
The student : Since the situation believes in these matters...
Another student : There is a new statistic I read about schools. It says that under fifteen years old, eighty-four percent of them are active...

The Shaykh : Ya Latif (O Magnificent).
The student : Where is this?
Another student : In Britain.
The student : So how do you prevent them from this?

The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah, .
The student : ... .
Another student: ...