How a Woman Can Win Her Husband's Affection

Question:
Shaykh 'Abd al-'Aziz! You have been gracious in giving this advice to our sister, and surely you will be gracious in giving another piece of advice regarding the best way for a woman who wants to win her husband's affection, so that he provides her with good maintenance, treats her kindly, and also spends on those she loves and loves those she loves.

Answer:
I know no way to achieve this except through good character, pleasant speech, being affectionate toward him, and seizing appropriate opportunities when she sees that he is in a good mood and has a kind heart. She should say to him in pleasant words to pay attention to such and such, and to pay attention to such and such, and to pay attention to such and such.
Or she can hint to someone she sees who will not be angered by speaking to him about it, such as an older brother, an uncle, or a maternal uncle, among those she thinks will not cause harm if they speak to him, but rather will bring about benefit, so that they advise him and guide him to good, without mentioning to him that she complained about him to them, or that she said to them such and such. This is one of the ways in which good is hoped for, and the best of them is being affectionate toward him, speaking to him pleasantly, and seizing the appropriate opportunities when his mind is in a good state and his heart is kind; perhaps he will respond, perhaps he will open up, and perhaps he will feel his shortcoming and error and return to the right path. Yes.

The presenter: May Allah reward you with good.