The Ruling on Rights That Occur Among Young People
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Regarding what usually happens among young people, which is called "rights," sometimes a person may make a mistake with another, such as belittling him or saying something about him, but with a good heart he accepts it and takes it in.But he says: You have a right on me because you said such and such, so you are having dinner today, and the other one also accepts it with a good heart?
I do not see this.Because these people are playing, if he says to him: Abdullah, and his name is Abd al-Rahman, and he made a mistake,He said: My name is Abd al-Rahman, you have a right on me! Or he says: Take the cup of milk,And he takes the cup of tea and says: You have a right on me! This is playing around.
But if the matter is real, that the man who was wronged got angry and withdrew and stopped sitting with them, and they went to appease him and said: We will make you a right, there is nothing wrong with this, this is real, because it is consuming wealth with a right for the sake of reconciliation between people.
Is the first one reconciliation between people or play? I have heard of this a lot and I see that it is consuming wealth without right. On what basis is there a fine of 400 or 500 riyals on this? On what basis?The questioner: The person who made the mistake is very accepting! The Shaykh: The people of riba (usury or interest) accept riba very much. The people of gambling who gamble with millions are satisfied. You find a person is overcome by gambling and loses all his money and he is satisfied. This matter has Shari'ah (Islamic sacred law) regulations. Allah (Glorified and Exalted is He) made wealth a means of sustenance for people, not a plaything. Therefore, one must refrain from that. And you should also advise the one you see doing this work. Does he accept any right? If your companion wants to invite you, he invites you without this. Some of them even intentionally make a mistake so that they can say: You have a right on me!
I do not see this.Because these people are playing, if he says to him: Abdullah, and his name is Abd al-Rahman, and he made a mistake,He said: My name is Abd al-Rahman, you have a right on me! Or he says: Take the cup of milk,And he takes the cup of tea and says: You have a right on me! This is playing around.
But if the matter is real, that the man who was wronged got angry and withdrew and stopped sitting with them, and they went to appease him and said: We will make you a right, there is nothing wrong with this, this is real, because it is consuming wealth with a right for the sake of reconciliation between people.
Is the first one reconciliation between people or play? I have heard of this a lot and I see that it is consuming wealth without right. On what basis is there a fine of 400 or 500 riyals on this? On what basis?The questioner: The person who made the mistake is very accepting! The Shaykh: The people of riba (usury or interest) accept riba very much. The people of gambling who gamble with millions are satisfied. You find a person is overcome by gambling and loses all his money and he is satisfied. This matter has Shari'ah (Islamic sacred law) regulations. Allah (Glorified and Exalted is He) made wealth a means of sustenance for people, not a plaything. Therefore, one must refrain from that. And you should also advise the one you see doing this work. Does he accept any right? If your companion wants to invite you, he invites you without this. Some of them even intentionally make a mistake so that they can say: You have a right on me!