Is it permissible for a woman to stipulate that her suitor be a student of religious knowledge?
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The questioner : Is it permissible for a girl to stipulate to the one who proposes to her that he be a student of knowledge?
The Shaykh : To the one who proposes to her
The questioner : To the one who asks for her hand
The Shaykh : Yes, meaning the question is clear and not clear, meaning she wants the suitor to be from the students of knowledge? What is wrong with that?
The questioner : There is nothing wrong with it
The Shaykh : Meaning, for example, she wants the man to be righteous. Well, if she is greedy for a righteous man and a student of knowledge, naturally, when she makes this request that he be a student of knowledge, it does not mean he is not righteous. So she means righteous and a student of knowledge. What is the obstacle to this? I wish all the girls were like this type.
The questioner : Meaning, her stipulation upon him keeps him a student of knowledge, continuing in the pursuit of knowledge.
The Shaykh : Yes.
Another questioner : Meaning, her stipulation upon him that he remains continuing in the pursuit of knowledge
The Shaykh : No, that is a second thing. That is from you, not from him. He says that he be a student of knowledge.
The questioner : Meaning, the original state is that he be a student of knowledge.
The Shaykh : As for the issue of whether he continues or does not continue, that is another matter.
The Shaykh : To the one who proposes to her
The questioner : To the one who asks for her hand
The Shaykh : Yes, meaning the question is clear and not clear, meaning she wants the suitor to be from the students of knowledge? What is wrong with that?
The questioner : There is nothing wrong with it
The Shaykh : Meaning, for example, she wants the man to be righteous. Well, if she is greedy for a righteous man and a student of knowledge, naturally, when she makes this request that he be a student of knowledge, it does not mean he is not righteous. So she means righteous and a student of knowledge. What is the obstacle to this? I wish all the girls were like this type.
The questioner : Meaning, her stipulation upon him keeps him a student of knowledge, continuing in the pursuit of knowledge.
The Shaykh : Yes.
Another questioner : Meaning, her stipulation upon him that he remains continuing in the pursuit of knowledge
The Shaykh : No, that is a second thing. That is from you, not from him. He says that he be a student of knowledge.
The questioner : Meaning, the original state is that he be a student of knowledge.
The Shaykh : As for the issue of whether he continues or does not continue, that is another matter.
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