What is the ruling on speaking with the fiancée? And is there any hadith or athar regarding this?
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The questioner : Yes.
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace.
The questioner : How are you, our Shaykh?
The Shaykh : Praise be to Allah, I am well
The questioner : How are you? From Al-Aqabah, from those who love your knowledge, O Shaykh.
The Shaykh : Welcome.
The questioner : We want to ask you a question.
The Shaykh : Please go ahead.
The questioner : O our Shaykh, we know that it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that he commanded the suitor to look at his fiancée.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : Yes, but is it established from him, O our Shaykh, that he commanded the suitor to ask his fiancée questions or speak with her? Is this established in the Book or the Sunnah?
The Shaykh : No, nothing has been reported regarding that.
The questioner : Yes, if the suitor does it, is there any harm, O Shaykh?
The Shaykh : If he does it in the presence of her guardian, there is no harm.
The questioner : There is no harm.
The Shaykh : And there is a known Islamic etiquette, because a woman speaking to a man in general...
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh : There is nothing forbidden by the Shari'ah, contrary to the views of those who are overly strict.
The questioner : Meaning, simply by the presence of a mahram.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is correct.
The questioner : A question, because he wants to know her methodology. Is she of the methodology of the Book and the Sunnah? He wants to know her creed from this perspective.
The Shaykh : There is no objection.
The questioner : There is no objection.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: May Allah bless you.
The Shaykh : May Allah bless you.
The questioner : Abu 'Abd al-Rahman and Abu Lu'ayy send you their greetings.
The Shaykh : And upon you and them be peace.
The questioner : May Allah prolong your life.
The Shaykh : Welcome.
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace and the mercy and blessings of Allah.
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace.
The questioner : How are you, our Shaykh?
The Shaykh : Praise be to Allah, I am well
The questioner : How are you? From Al-Aqabah, from those who love your knowledge, O Shaykh.
The Shaykh : Welcome.
The questioner : We want to ask you a question.
The Shaykh : Please go ahead.
The questioner : O our Shaykh, we know that it is established from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that he commanded the suitor to look at his fiancée.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : Yes, but is it established from him, O our Shaykh, that he commanded the suitor to ask his fiancée questions or speak with her? Is this established in the Book or the Sunnah?
The Shaykh : No, nothing has been reported regarding that.
The questioner : Yes, if the suitor does it, is there any harm, O Shaykh?
The Shaykh : If he does it in the presence of her guardian, there is no harm.
The questioner : There is no harm.
The Shaykh : And there is a known Islamic etiquette, because a woman speaking to a man in general...
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh : There is nothing forbidden by the Shari'ah, contrary to the views of those who are overly strict.
The questioner : Meaning, simply by the presence of a mahram.
The Shaykh : Yes, that is correct.
The questioner : A question, because he wants to know her methodology. Is she of the methodology of the Book and the Sunnah? He wants to know her creed from this perspective.
The Shaykh : There is no objection.
The questioner : There is no objection.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: May Allah bless you.
The Shaykh : May Allah bless you.
The questioner : Abu 'Abd al-Rahman and Abu Lu'ayy send you their greetings.
The Shaykh : And upon you and them be peace.
The questioner : May Allah prolong your life.
The Shaykh : Welcome.
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace and the mercy and blessings of Allah.
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