I said to my wife while I was in a state of anger: If you go down to my father's house, you are divorced. And now I want her to go down, so what should I do?
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The Shaykh : And peace be upon you.
The questioner : Shaykh Nasser?
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner : By Allah, I called you around the time of the midday prayer, but... she told me to call after the night prayer.
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner : So we called, if Allah wills... at the mosque, if you would be so kind, regarding a question.
The Shaykh: Go ahead.
The questioner : May Allah reward you. I was coming from work. It was a matter regarding divorce. I was coming from work, and I was tired. I was driving, as I work as a driver, and I was about to have an accident on the road. I was angry like that and upset. I passed by the house and found the woman in my face, so I swore divorce upon her that she would not go to my father's house. We want the girl to go to my father's house so that she can help my mother, meaning, in the house... in the house.
The Shaykh : How long have you been married?
The questioner : For a year and six months.
The Shaykh : Okay, did you pronounce a divorce during this period?
The questioner : No, absolutely not.
The Shaykh : Not at all.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : And this is the only time it came from you.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : And did you intend to divorce her?
The questioner : No, I was angry, I don't know, I was...
The Shaykh : And what did you say?
The questioner : I told her that if you come down here, you will be divorced.
The Shaykh : If she comes down and you did not intend to divorce her if she came down.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Yes, there is no divorce upon you, and praise be to Allah. But do not return to this anger again, because not every time is the pot safe.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Therefore, repent to Allah, and there is nothing upon you.
The questioner : So she can come down, meaning, Shaykh, it is normal.
The Shaykh : Repent to Allah, and there is nothing upon you.
The questioner : May Allah reward you.
The Shaykh : May Allah preserve you.
The questioner : May Allah reward you with good.
The Shaykh : And beware of that.
The questioner : Shaykh Nasser?
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner : By Allah, I called you around the time of the midday prayer, but... she told me to call after the night prayer.
The Shaykh: Yes.
The questioner : So we called, if Allah wills... at the mosque, if you would be so kind, regarding a question.
The Shaykh: Go ahead.
The questioner : May Allah reward you. I was coming from work. It was a matter regarding divorce. I was coming from work, and I was tired. I was driving, as I work as a driver, and I was about to have an accident on the road. I was angry like that and upset. I passed by the house and found the woman in my face, so I swore divorce upon her that she would not go to my father's house. We want the girl to go to my father's house so that she can help my mother, meaning, in the house... in the house.
The Shaykh : How long have you been married?
The questioner : For a year and six months.
The Shaykh : Okay, did you pronounce a divorce during this period?
The questioner : No, absolutely not.
The Shaykh : Not at all.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : And this is the only time it came from you.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : And did you intend to divorce her?
The questioner : No, I was angry, I don't know, I was...
The Shaykh : And what did you say?
The questioner : I told her that if you come down here, you will be divorced.
The Shaykh : If she comes down and you did not intend to divorce her if she came down.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Yes, there is no divorce upon you, and praise be to Allah. But do not return to this anger again, because not every time is the pot safe.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Therefore, repent to Allah, and there is nothing upon you.
The questioner : So she can come down, meaning, Shaykh, it is normal.
The Shaykh : Repent to Allah, and there is nothing upon you.
The questioner : May Allah reward you.
The Shaykh : May Allah preserve you.
The questioner : May Allah reward you with good.
The Shaykh : And beware of that.
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