Who said to his wife: (I said you are forbidden to me if I sleep with you after this day without us taking a bath in the same night)
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The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace
The questioner: Muhammad
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: Muhammad, please
Another questioner: Who is Muhammad?
Another questioner: I am saying Oman
Another questioner: Oman?
Another questioner: No, he saidThe Shaykh : Muhammad
The Shaykh : Hello
The questioner : Hello
The Shaykh: Don't you speak, my brother?
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace
The questioner: I want to ask you a question, if Allah wills
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: I mean, today I swore an oath regarding my wife
The Shaykh: What did you say?
The questioner: Many times... with his wife
The Shaykh: What did you say? What did you say?
The questioner: What did you say? I said you are forbidden to me if I sleep with you after this day without us taking a bath in the same night, or if we had agreed beforehand, because many times I miss the Fajr prayer
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: So how does a person break this oath?
The Shaykh: How did you break it?
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: How did you break it?
The questioner: For myself
The Shaykh: Why did you break it?
The questioner: Because I often miss the Fajr prayer
The Shaykh: Do you miss the Fajr prayer?
The questioner : Yes, exactly.
The Shaykh: It appears that you stay up late
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: It is not permissible to stay up late in a way that causes you to miss the Fajr prayer
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: So if you want to have intercourse with your wife
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: Either you have intercourse with her after the 'Isha' prayer, and you both take a bath, and you put your heads down and sleep so that you can make it for the Fajr prayer, or you control your nerves and do not approach her until after you have prayed Fajr. This oath of yours requires an expiation for an oath first, and you need to repent to Allah the Exalted from staying up late second
The questioner: Once more, I swear by Allah, my master
The Shaykh: First, you need to offer an expiation for an oath by feeding ten poor people, that is first. And second, you need to repent to Allah the Exalted from your staying up late. You and your wife, and your children if you have children, should not stay up late after the 'Isha' prayer and sleep early so that you wake up early. This is the answer to your question
The questioner: Well, my master, how much do we give as charity? How much does the amount come to?
The Shaykh: There is no specific amount I am telling you; it is feeding ten poor people
The questioner: Well, approximately how much money does it come to, instead of me providing the food?
The Shaykh: You need to feed, feed, feed. What do you eat? You feed that
The questioner : Yes, yes.
The Shaykh: Did I make myself clear or not?
The questioner : Yes, yes.
The Shaykh: May Allah reward you, peace be upon you
The questioner: And upon you peace, thank you, thank you
The Shaykh : Welcome.
Another questioner: ... feeding or clothing, the verse means there is... feeding, feeding, or... clothing
The Shaykh: Which is easier, may Allah guide you
Another questioner: Excuse me, he is asking
The Shaykh: Which is easier, may Allah guide you
Another questioner: Amen, guide me and you
Another questioner: Clothing is easier for him
The Shaykh : No.
Another questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: He goes to the market and buys for him, big and small and long
Another questioner : Even if he
The Shaykh: May Allah make it so that they execute the food
Another questioner: Is it considered an expiation for zihar or an expiation for an oath?
The Shaykh: No, an oath
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace
The questioner: Muhammad
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: Muhammad, please
Another questioner: Who is Muhammad?
Another questioner: I am saying Oman
Another questioner: Oman?
Another questioner: No, he saidThe Shaykh : Muhammad
The Shaykh : Hello
The questioner : Hello
The Shaykh: Don't you speak, my brother?
The questioner : Peace be upon you
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace
The questioner: I want to ask you a question, if Allah wills
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: I mean, today I swore an oath regarding my wife
The Shaykh: What did you say?
The questioner: Many times... with his wife
The Shaykh: What did you say? What did you say?
The questioner: What did you say? I said you are forbidden to me if I sleep with you after this day without us taking a bath in the same night, or if we had agreed beforehand, because many times I miss the Fajr prayer
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner: So how does a person break this oath?
The Shaykh: How did you break it?
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: How did you break it?
The questioner: For myself
The Shaykh: Why did you break it?
The questioner: Because I often miss the Fajr prayer
The Shaykh: Do you miss the Fajr prayer?
The questioner : Yes, exactly.
The Shaykh: It appears that you stay up late
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: It is not permissible to stay up late in a way that causes you to miss the Fajr prayer
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: So if you want to have intercourse with your wife
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: Either you have intercourse with her after the 'Isha' prayer, and you both take a bath, and you put your heads down and sleep so that you can make it for the Fajr prayer, or you control your nerves and do not approach her until after you have prayed Fajr. This oath of yours requires an expiation for an oath first, and you need to repent to Allah the Exalted from staying up late second
The questioner: Once more, I swear by Allah, my master
The Shaykh: First, you need to offer an expiation for an oath by feeding ten poor people, that is first. And second, you need to repent to Allah the Exalted from your staying up late. You and your wife, and your children if you have children, should not stay up late after the 'Isha' prayer and sleep early so that you wake up early. This is the answer to your question
The questioner: Well, my master, how much do we give as charity? How much does the amount come to?
The Shaykh: There is no specific amount I am telling you; it is feeding ten poor people
The questioner: Well, approximately how much money does it come to, instead of me providing the food?
The Shaykh: You need to feed, feed, feed. What do you eat? You feed that
The questioner : Yes, yes.
The Shaykh: Did I make myself clear or not?
The questioner : Yes, yes.
The Shaykh: May Allah reward you, peace be upon you
The questioner: And upon you peace, thank you, thank you
The Shaykh : Welcome.
Another questioner: ... feeding or clothing, the verse means there is... feeding, feeding, or... clothing
The Shaykh: Which is easier, may Allah guide you
Another questioner: Excuse me, he is asking
The Shaykh: Which is easier, may Allah guide you
Another questioner: Amen, guide me and you
Another questioner: Clothing is easier for him
The Shaykh : No.
Another questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh: He goes to the market and buys for him, big and small and long
Another questioner : Even if he
The Shaykh: May Allah make it so that they execute the food
Another questioner: Is it considered an expiation for zihar or an expiation for an oath?
The Shaykh: No, an oath
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