What is the ruling of the Shari'ah regarding the love of young women?
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The questioner : The love of young women.
The Shaykh : The love of young women? You mean his sisters and daughters?
The questioner : You know the question well, don't you...
The Shaykh : Of course I know... No, I want to answer you in your own language. Since it is not the love of Allah and His Messenger, nor the love of his sisters, daughters, or wife, then... then what? That is the question.
The questioner : I mean, a person like this, you don't know.
The Shaykh : If he loves one... do you see how it is? ...
The questioner : The word that we, for example, see...
The Shaykh : And he is tested with it?
The questioner : ... I mean, I say.
The Shaykh : And then the intermediary between them...
The questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : Yes, this is the question now.
The questioner : So I was saying that it cannot be that there is love... it is all forbidden... you will respond if you have evidence for something.
The Shaykh : No, I have nothing, verify the things...
The questioner : A man saw a woman... and loved her, he was infatuated with her.
The Shaykh : Okay... the answer...
The questioner : The text of the hadith.
The Shaykh : This is a fatwa [everyone laughs!].
Eid AbbasiAl-Mustadrak lil-Hakim 21:291, is this present?
Another questioner : Authentic, yes.
The Shaykh : ... But this point; because this hadith is about... something other than what they are asking about.
The questioner: This.
The Shaykh : The two who love each other here are not lovers... I mean, doing bad love enters with bad company... they loved each other and got married, these people were overcome by the matter and the incident happened between them, so they loved each other, so with marriage, is it not necessary to understand the hadith this way? Yes?
The questioner : I did not understand the speech.
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The Shaykh : Do you see you are revealing your secrets?! ...
Eid Abbasi : ... If we say, professor, that... it has not come as forbidden, it remains permissible.
The Shaykh : If we say what?
The questioner : That as long as it has not come as forbidden in his love, it is permissible.
The Shaykh : Yes, how can this love be...? How will the permissible love be? This... hadith.
The questioner : That it falls in his heart.
The Shaykh : But he brought the hadith in the previous question about the common love today.
The questioner : ... .
Eid Abbasi : ... He brought the two conditions: the first condition is that his goal is marriage, the second condition is that it is bound by the restrictions of the Shari'ah; seclusion and handshaking are forbidden and... forbidden.
The Shaykh : No, but this is not enough, oh... you need to look at his principle... is it the principle that a person, for example, intends to waste time in this love... until he achieves the desired purpose?
The questioner : And that is the marriage we spoke about.
The Shaykh : So...
Eid Abbasi : ... It is correct... it is not known that love comes against a person's will; therefore.
The questioner : The evidence is that... regarding the second congregational prayer.
The Shaykh : How did you not answer it?
The questioner : ... .
...
The Shaykh : Since the Islamic sects began to divide against each other, and some of them...
The Shaykh : The love of young women? You mean his sisters and daughters?
The questioner : You know the question well, don't you...
The Shaykh : Of course I know... No, I want to answer you in your own language. Since it is not the love of Allah and His Messenger, nor the love of his sisters, daughters, or wife, then... then what? That is the question.
The questioner : I mean, a person like this, you don't know.
The Shaykh : If he loves one... do you see how it is? ...
The questioner : The word that we, for example, see...
The Shaykh : And he is tested with it?
The questioner : ... I mean, I say.
The Shaykh : And then the intermediary between them...
The questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : Yes, this is the question now.
The questioner : So I was saying that it cannot be that there is love... it is all forbidden... you will respond if you have evidence for something.
The Shaykh : No, I have nothing, verify the things...
The questioner : A man saw a woman... and loved her, he was infatuated with her.
The Shaykh : Okay... the answer...
The questioner : The text of the hadith.
The Shaykh : This is a fatwa [everyone laughs!].
Eid Abbasi
It has not been seen for the two who love each other anything like marriage
لم يُرَ للمتحابَّين مثل الزواجAnother questioner : Authentic, yes.
The Shaykh : ... But this point; because this hadith is about... something other than what they are asking about.
The questioner: This.
The Shaykh : The two who love each other here are not lovers... I mean, doing bad love enters with bad company... they loved each other and got married, these people were overcome by the matter and the incident happened between them, so they loved each other, so with marriage, is it not necessary to understand the hadith this way? Yes?
The questioner : I did not understand the speech.
...
The Shaykh : Do you see you are revealing your secrets?! ...
Eid Abbasi : ... If we say, professor, that... it has not come as forbidden, it remains permissible.
The Shaykh : If we say what?
The questioner : That as long as it has not come as forbidden in his love, it is permissible.
The Shaykh : Yes, how can this love be...? How will the permissible love be? This... hadith.
The questioner : That it falls in his heart.
The Shaykh : But he brought the hadith in the previous question about the common love today.
The questioner : ... .
Eid Abbasi : ... He brought the two conditions: the first condition is that his goal is marriage, the second condition is that it is bound by the restrictions of the Shari'ah; seclusion and handshaking are forbidden and... forbidden.
The Shaykh : No, but this is not enough, oh... you need to look at his principle... is it the principle that a person, for example, intends to waste time in this love... until he achieves the desired purpose?
The questioner : And that is the marriage we spoke about.
The Shaykh : So...
Eid Abbasi : ... It is correct... it is not known that love comes against a person's will; therefore.
The questioner : The evidence is that... regarding the second congregational prayer.
The Shaykh : How did you not answer it?
The questioner : ... .
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The Shaykh : Since the Islamic sects began to divide against each other, and some of them...
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