A son slaughtered his mother's 'Id sacrifice without her permission; what is obligatory upon the son?
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The questioner : Teacher, I have a mother and brothers, my mother... they fought with her and they removed her from the house.
The Shaykh: No.
The questioner : We went and brought her and placed her in the house a month before the 'Id. She came... we agreed that my mother and I would sacrifice, we would sacrifice, on the night of the 'Id.
The Shaykh : Meaning, you and she, each one a sacrifice?
The questioner : ... Yes.
The Shaykh: All right.
The questioner : On the night of the 'Id they came and reconciled her. I said to them: If you reconcile her, I cannot... and no religion, if I say to her: Go, she will say: They hate me. And if I say to her... they will say: By Allah, he is inciting his mother against us. But on the condition that you come out and spend the 'Id with me.
The Shaykh : Will you stop?
The questioner : You will spend the 'Id with me.
Another questioner : You will spend the 'Id with me.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : On the condition that the mother agrees to spend the 'Id with me, after the 'Id... or she comes down, goes out, returns to the house to take it, the one... who comes down and the two sacrifices are present, meaning, the morning ones so that we go out to slaughter, she did not go out, she came down... she... ... I said to her... the situation, I said to her: Do you want to take its price and sacrifice... or do you go out and distribute it? She said: I will send it to me, I want to distribute it... the result was she went out and distributed it up there. Did the sacrifice reach the poor or did it not reach?
The Shaykh : Did she sacrifice it?
The questioner : Yes, she went out and distributed it with her hand according to...
The Shaykh : Did you slaughter your 'Id sacrifice?
The questioner : Yes, I slaughtered my 'Id sacrifice...
The Shaykh : Did your 'Id sacrifice not reach, or did your slaughter for her 'Id sacrifice not reach?
The questioner : Yes?
The Shaykh : Your slaughter for her 'Id sacrifice did not reach without her permission.
The questioner : It was slaughtered.
The Shaykh : Oh?
The questioner : It was slaughtered, she agreed to...
The Shaykh : It was slaughtered after the destruction of Basra!! Is that how it is?
The questioner : ... .
Another questioner : What is the benefit?
The Shaykh : What is the benefit? The important thing is when you slaughtered it, you were not an aggressor, and now you were admitting that you were wrong?
The questioner : Ah, I am telling you I...
The Shaykh : ... does your mistake get corrected by her later consent? Never, never!
Another questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : Yes?
Another questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : That is the law that guides you.
Another questioner: Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The questioner : ... her 'Id sacrifice is not accepted on her behalf.
The Shaykh : No, rather it is the meat of a sheep that you presented to your mother.
The questioner : You presented it?
The Shaykh : You presented it to your mother.
Eid Abbasi : And your mother presented it to the poor.
Another questioner : Sacrifice for her with another one.
The questioner : ... charity, meaning...
The Shaykh : Did it remain with you in the house after the 'Id?
The questioner : No, on the 'Id...
The Shaykh : Yes?
The questioner : On the 'Id she distributed it, the next day immediately she distributed it.
The Shaykh : I am not asking you if you distributed it.
The questioner : No, she went out and distributed it and came down...
The Shaykh : Did it remain with you during the days of the 'Id?
The questioner : On the 'Id itself, she went out and distributed it and came down.
The Shaykh : How did she distribute it?
The questioner : On the 'Id.
The Shaykh : The 'Id is one day, in...
The questioner : No... the next day.
The Shaykh : The next day.
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh : Meaning, on the first day when you slaughtered, was it present with you?
The questioner: No...
The Shaykh : How could it be, how are you saying: the next day?
The questioner : Yes?
The Shaykh : How are you saying: the next day it went?
The questioner : She came down to the house.
The Shaykh : On the night of the 'Id?
The questioner : On the night of the 'Id she came down, I slaughtered on the day of the 'Id, she went out the next day and distributed it, this was her request.
The Shaykh : I am asking you: was it with you on the 'Id? You say: No, the problem is solved.
The questioner: No, no.
The Shaykh : What do I care if she distributed it or not, I am not asking you about the distribution.
The questioner : No... it was not present.
The Shaykh: It did not exist.
The questioner : No...
The Shaykh : When you slaughtered the two, these were not present.
The questioner : No, they were not present.
The Shaykh : Okay, did your sisters slaughter?
The questioner: No.
The Shaykh : They did not slaughter, slaughter a sacrifice for them, and you must ask me then what do you want with this confusion and all these questions? Is that how you must ask me, when you understand the religion of Allah.
Another questioner : If it had been in the house with him, then his slaughter of the two sacrifices would have sufficed for her and... or it would have been... the brothers.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The Shaykh: If your mother had remained, then your slaughter of the two sacrifices...
The questioner : Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The Shaykh: Do we pray?
...
The Shaykh: No.
The questioner : We went and brought her and placed her in the house a month before the 'Id. She came... we agreed that my mother and I would sacrifice, we would sacrifice, on the night of the 'Id.
The Shaykh : Meaning, you and she, each one a sacrifice?
The questioner : ... Yes.
The Shaykh: All right.
The questioner : On the night of the 'Id they came and reconciled her. I said to them: If you reconcile her, I cannot... and no religion, if I say to her: Go, she will say: They hate me. And if I say to her... they will say: By Allah, he is inciting his mother against us. But on the condition that you come out and spend the 'Id with me.
The Shaykh : Will you stop?
The questioner : You will spend the 'Id with me.
Another questioner : You will spend the 'Id with me.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : On the condition that the mother agrees to spend the 'Id with me, after the 'Id... or she comes down, goes out, returns to the house to take it, the one... who comes down and the two sacrifices are present, meaning, the morning ones so that we go out to slaughter, she did not go out, she came down... she... ... I said to her... the situation, I said to her: Do you want to take its price and sacrifice... or do you go out and distribute it? She said: I will send it to me, I want to distribute it... the result was she went out and distributed it up there. Did the sacrifice reach the poor or did it not reach?
The Shaykh : Did she sacrifice it?
The questioner : Yes, she went out and distributed it with her hand according to...
The Shaykh : Did you slaughter your 'Id sacrifice?
The questioner : Yes, I slaughtered my 'Id sacrifice...
The Shaykh : Did your 'Id sacrifice not reach, or did your slaughter for her 'Id sacrifice not reach?
The questioner : Yes?
The Shaykh : Your slaughter for her 'Id sacrifice did not reach without her permission.
The questioner : It was slaughtered.
The Shaykh : Oh?
The questioner : It was slaughtered, she agreed to...
The Shaykh : It was slaughtered after the destruction of Basra!! Is that how it is?
The questioner : ... .
Another questioner : What is the benefit?
The Shaykh : What is the benefit? The important thing is when you slaughtered it, you were not an aggressor, and now you were admitting that you were wrong?
The questioner : Ah, I am telling you I...
The Shaykh : ... does your mistake get corrected by her later consent? Never, never!
Another questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : Yes?
Another questioner : ... .
The Shaykh : That is the law that guides you.
Another questioner: Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The questioner : ... her 'Id sacrifice is not accepted on her behalf.
The Shaykh : No, rather it is the meat of a sheep that you presented to your mother.
The questioner : You presented it?
The Shaykh : You presented it to your mother.
Eid Abbasi : And your mother presented it to the poor.
Another questioner : Sacrifice for her with another one.
The questioner : ... charity, meaning...
The Shaykh : Did it remain with you in the house after the 'Id?
The questioner : No, on the 'Id...
The Shaykh : Yes?
The questioner : On the 'Id she distributed it, the next day immediately she distributed it.
The Shaykh : I am not asking you if you distributed it.
The questioner : No, she went out and distributed it and came down...
The Shaykh : Did it remain with you during the days of the 'Id?
The questioner : On the 'Id itself, she went out and distributed it and came down.
The Shaykh : How did she distribute it?
The questioner : On the 'Id.
The Shaykh : The 'Id is one day, in...
The questioner : No... the next day.
The Shaykh : The next day.
The questioner : Yes.
The Shaykh : Meaning, on the first day when you slaughtered, was it present with you?
The questioner: No...
The Shaykh : How could it be, how are you saying: the next day?
The questioner : Yes?
The Shaykh : How are you saying: the next day it went?
The questioner : She came down to the house.
The Shaykh : On the night of the 'Id?
The questioner : On the night of the 'Id she came down, I slaughtered on the day of the 'Id, she went out the next day and distributed it, this was her request.
The Shaykh : I am asking you: was it with you on the 'Id? You say: No, the problem is solved.
The questioner: No, no.
The Shaykh : What do I care if she distributed it or not, I am not asking you about the distribution.
The questioner : No... it was not present.
The Shaykh: It did not exist.
The questioner : No...
The Shaykh : When you slaughtered the two, these were not present.
The questioner : No, they were not present.
The Shaykh : Okay, did your sisters slaughter?
The questioner: No.
The Shaykh : They did not slaughter, slaughter a sacrifice for them, and you must ask me then what do you want with this confusion and all these questions? Is that how you must ask me, when you understand the religion of Allah.
Another questioner : If it had been in the house with him, then his slaughter of the two sacrifices would have sufficed for her and... or it would have been... the brothers.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The Shaykh: If your mother had remained, then your slaughter of the two sacrifices...
The questioner : Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The Shaykh: Do we pray?
...
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