Is it permissible for a woman to visit graves to supplicate for the deceased and to recite the Qur'an and al-Fatihah for him?
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The questioner : In her question, she asks the Shaykh: Is it permissible for a woman to visit graves to supplicate for the deceased and to recite the Qur'an and al-Fatihah for him?
The Shaykh : The correct view is that it is not permissible for a woman to visit graveyards, because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed those who visit graves. Also, if this door were opened for women, it would lead to fitnah (trial, discord or temptation) for them and fitnah through them. A woman can hardly bear it when she stands at the grave of her mother, her father, or one of those she loves; she cannot bear it, and her grief may renew itself constantly every time she visits the graveyard. Furthermore, she may be exposed to harm by someone, as graveyards are usually outside the town or in a remote place. Therefore, it is wise that she be prevented from visiting graves.
As for supplicating for the deceased, she can do so while in her home, because a specific place is not required for supplication.
As for reciting the Qur'an for the deceased, reciting the Qur'an over the dead is a bid'ah (religious innovation), whether by men or women, because this was not reported from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Rather, when he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished burying the deceased, he would stand over him and say: It was not reported that he used to recite over graves or over the graveyard in general. Rather, he (peace and blessings be upon him) would greet the people of the graveyards and supplicate for them for forgiveness and mercy. Yes.
The questioner : May Allah bless you.
The Shaykh : The correct view is that it is not permissible for a woman to visit graveyards, because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed those who visit graves. Also, if this door were opened for women, it would lead to fitnah (trial, discord or temptation) for them and fitnah through them. A woman can hardly bear it when she stands at the grave of her mother, her father, or one of those she loves; she cannot bear it, and her grief may renew itself constantly every time she visits the graveyard. Furthermore, she may be exposed to harm by someone, as graveyards are usually outside the town or in a remote place. Therefore, it is wise that she be prevented from visiting graves.
As for supplicating for the deceased, she can do so while in her home, because a specific place is not required for supplication.
As for reciting the Qur'an for the deceased, reciting the Qur'an over the dead is a bid'ah (religious innovation), whether by men or women, because this was not reported from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Rather, when he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished burying the deceased, he would stand over him and say:
Seek forgiveness for your brother, for he is now being questioned.
استغفروا لأخيكم فإنه الأن يسألThe questioner : May Allah bless you.