How to Visit an Aunt to Whom One Is Forbidden from Entering Her Home
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He says: I have an aunt, my mother’s sister, who has a husband and a son, and they dislike me. I do not want to cut off visiting her, because she is like my mother. Is it permissible for me to enter their home without their permission, or should I visit her outside her home?
Answer: It is prescribed for you to visit her outside her home, to call her on the phone, to send greetings and supplicate for her success and guidance, and to reconcile with her husband through kind words until he gives you permission. You have no right to enter his house except with his permission. However, you must engage in kind conversation, use kind words with the husband, supplicate for his success, and ask for his forgiveness to visit your aunt through kind words. Likewise, with the son, you should strive to improve the situation with him through kind words, good manners, and apologizing to them if you have wronged them, so that they may permit it. The believer is one who strives for the means of good and avoids the means of evil. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you with good and do you good.
Answer: It is prescribed for you to visit her outside her home, to call her on the phone, to send greetings and supplicate for her success and guidance, and to reconcile with her husband through kind words until he gives you permission. You have no right to enter his house except with his permission. However, you must engage in kind conversation, use kind words with the husband, supplicate for his success, and ask for his forgiveness to visit your aunt through kind words. Likewise, with the son, you should strive to improve the situation with him through kind words, good manners, and apologizing to them if you have wronged them, so that they may permit it. The believer is one who strives for the means of good and avoids the means of evil. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you with good and do you good.
Source
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