Advice for one who becomes angry when not permitted to enter
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Question:
The Shaykh, may Allah preserve him, says the questioner, Muhammad Abdullah: Some people become angry and upset when I tell them: Go back. Even though Allah the Exalted says: [Al-Nur: 28]?
Answer:
He should not become angry, because the people of the house may be busy. If they do not give permission, or if they say: Come back at another time, he should not be angry. They know their own situation best. And if they remain silent and do not respond after asking permission three times, he should also go back, because they may be busy and he does not know their state.
Therefore, he should have a good opinion of his brothers and not burden them. And if they explicitly say: Come back at another time, there is nothing wrong with that.
The presenter: May Allah reward you.
The Shaykh, may Allah preserve him, says the questioner, Muhammad Abdullah: Some people become angry and upset when I tell them: Go back. Even though Allah the Exalted says:
And if it is said to you, "Go back," then go back; it is purer for you
وَإِنْ قِيلَ لَكُمُ ارْجِعُوا فَارْجِعُوا هُوَ أَزْكَى لَكُمْAnswer:
He should not become angry, because the people of the house may be busy. If they do not give permission, or if they say: Come back at another time, he should not be angry. They know their own situation best. And if they remain silent and do not respond after asking permission three times, he should also go back, because they may be busy and he does not know their state.
Therefore, he should have a good opinion of his brothers and not burden them. And if they explicitly say: Come back at another time, there is nothing wrong with that.
The presenter: May Allah reward you.
Source
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