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﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

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Continuation of the explanation of "… So call upon Allah with your most sincere deeds. One of them said: O Allah, if You know that I had a woman who pleased me, so I sought her, but she refused me…"

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The Shaykh : So when one of them says, while they were in the cave,
So call upon Allah with your most sincere deeds فادعوا الله بأوثق أعمالكم
meaning with the most sincere good deed you performed, and you felt that you performed it, and you were desiring what is with Allah Mighty and Majestic, then this hadith contains the permissibility of seeking nearness to Allah through a good deed. And the previous verse contains the permissibility of seeking nearness to Allah by one of the names of Allah Blessed and Exalted is He
And to Allah belong the best names, so invoke Him by them ولله الأسماء الحسنى فادعوه بها
[Al-A'raf 7:180]
. And here
Call upon Him with a good deed for you ادعوه بعمل صالح لكم
. And there is another prescribed seeking nearness established in the Book and the Sunnah, which is the Muslim seeking nearness through the supplication of his righteous brother, in whom he perceives righteousness and hopes that his supplication will be answered. This is also prescribed. And whatever else of the forms of seeking nearness that became famous in the later generations, due to their distance from the Book and the Sunnah in knowledge and practice, has no basis at all, and none of the mujtahid imams said anything about them. I have detailed the discussion of these prescribed and non-prescribed forms of seeking nearness in my private treatise on seeking nearness, so one may refer to it if he wishes to expand. So one of them said
O Allah, if You know that I had a woman who pleased me, so I sought her اللهم إن كنت تعلم أنه كانت لي امرأة تعجبني فطلبتها
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:292
in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar that she was a relative to him
I had a cousin (daughter of my uncle) كان لي ابنت عم
. He says there
like the deepest love a man may have for a woman أحببتها كأشد ما يحب الرجال النساء
Sahih al-Bukhari 2333
. And this is clearer than the hadith "she pleased me." What is the extent of this approval and wonder? He said
like the deepest love a man may have for a woman أحببتها كأشد ما يحب الرجال النساء
Sahih al-Bukhari 2333
. And the effect of this intense love will appear in his fear of Allah Mighty and Majestic when he restrained himself from her
... so I asked for her, but she refused me, so I made a promise to her ... فطلبتها فأبت علي فجعلت لها جعلا
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. Meaning, as compensation for her giving herself to him, he would give her money in return. And this money was one hundred dinars, as it came in some narrations of the hadith of Ibn 'Umar.
... when she came close to me ... فلما قرّبت نفسها
He says there
and when I was going to have a sexual intercourse with her, that she said: Servant of Allah, fear Allah and do not break the seal (of chastity) but by lawful means. I got up. فلما وقعت بين رجليها قالت يا عبد الله اتق الله و لا تفتح الخاتم إلا بحقّه فقمت عنها
Sahih Muslim 2743a
. Here he says
When she came close to me, I left her فلما قربت نفسها تركتها
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. Here there is a general statement, and there there is a detail. And so, the story can be gathered in its entirety from the collection of narrations that came in it. This first supplicant said
If You know فإن كنت
, addressing his Lord
If You know that I only did that hoping for Your mercy and fearing Your punishment, then relieve us فإن كنت تعلم أني إنما فعلت ذلك رجاء رحمتك وخشية عذابك فافرج عنا
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
: "If You know that I turned away from this girl, and more than that, that I left the money I had offered her in order to satisfy my desire with her, so I left all of that." Meaning, for Your sake and out of fear of You. But he feared that he might be mistaken in thinking that he left it out of fear of Allah. And so he says
If You, O Allah, know that I only did that hoping for Your mercy and fearing Your punishment, then relieve us, and a third of the stone moved فإن كنت اللهم تعلم إنما فعلت ذلك رجاء رحمتك وخشية عذابك فافرج عنا فزال ثلث الحجر
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. Meaning, the rock that had blocked the mouth of the cave moved by one-third, the distance in which they could exit the cave.
And the second said, "O Allah, if You know that I had two parents, so I used to milk for them in their vessels, and when I brought it to them while they were sleeping, I would stand until they woke up, and when they woke up, they would drink وقال الآخر اللهم إن كنت تعلم أنه كان لي والدان فكنت أحلب لهما في إنائهما فإذا أتيتهما وهما نائمان قمت حتى يستيقظا فإذا استيقظا شربا
He describes here the extent of his service to his parents, whatever patience it required. Until he would bring the vessel containing the milk, and if he found them sleeping, he would not wake them, preserving their rest and sleep. Rather, he would remain standing until they woke up, combining their rest in sleep and drinking the milk. In the hadith of Ibn 'Umar, he details this part of this hadith, saying
One day I was obliged to go out to a distant place in search of fodder فنأى بي ذات يوم الشجر
Sahih Muslim 2743a
. Meaning, he went out in search of pasture and greenery and grass, and he went far from the village, contrary to his habit. He did not return until it was evening. He said
So I milked as I used to milk and brought the milk, and I found that they had fallen asleep فحلبت كما كنت أحلب و جئت بالحلاب فوجدتهما قد ناما
. So this is a very precise description of his psychological state between the right of his parents and the right of his children. He said
I found that they had fallen asleep, so I stood at their heads, fearing that I would wake them from their sleep, while the children were crying from hunger at my feet فوجدتهما قد ناما فقمت عند رؤوسهما أخشى أن أوقظهما من نومهما و الصبية يتضاغون من الجوع عند قدميّ
. So he was hesitating between waking them in order to start giving them to drink before the children, and in this there is disturbance for them if he woke them. And on the other hand, the children were crying with hunger. So it is as if he is saying: What do I do? Wake them? No, they must take precedence over the children. Leave the children? The children are crying and weeping. He said in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar
So this state of mine and theirs continued till the day dawned. فلم يزل ذلك دأبي و دأبهم حتى طلع الفجر
Sahih al-Bukhari 5974
. This is the struggle in the path of pleasing the parents. He says in his supplication and his addressing his Lord
O Allah, if You know that I had two parents, so I used to milk for them in their vessels, and when I brought it to them while they were sleeping, I would stand until they woke up, and when they woke up, they would drink. If You know that I did that hoping for Your mercy and fearing Your punishment, then relieve us, and a third of the stone moved اللهم إن كنت تعلم أنه كان لي والدين فكنت أحلب لهما في إنائهما فإذا أتيتهما وهما نائمان قمت حتى يستيقظا فإذا استيقظا شربا فإن كنت تعلم أني فعلت ذلك رجاء رحمتك وخشية عذابك فافرج عنا فزال ثلث الحجر
. Meaning, the second one. And the third said
O Allah, if You know that I hired a worker for a day, and he worked until midday اللهم إن كنت تعلم أني استأجرت أجيرا يوما فعمل إلى نصف النهار
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. In this hadith, there is a benefit: there is no specification of the amount of work in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar, but here there is a specification that he worked until half the day.
So I gave him a wage, but he was displeased with it and did not accept it, so I kept adding to it until it became that amount of wealth. فأعطيته أجرا فسخطه ولم يأخذه فوفرتها عليه حتى صارت ذلك المال
. Here there is also brevity and concision. So what was that money? Its explanation came in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar that it was
He said, “So I kept planting it.” قال فلم أزل أزرعه
. Meaning, the wage of that man, which was a *farq* of rice. A *farq* is a small vessel. His wage was this *farq* of rice. So when this worker did not accept this wage and left angry, this master, the owner of the land, said
He said, “So I kept planting it.” فلم أزل أزرعه
. Meaning, that *farq* of rice, until I gathered from it cows and grazed them. This is what the man saved from that *farq*. He saved and accumulated cows and their herders. So he says in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar
After a time that man came and demanded his money. ثم جاءني فقال يا عبد الله أعطني حقّي
Sahih al-Bukhari 2215
. And his right is the *farq* of rice.
I said to him, “Look at those cows, go and take them.” He said, “O servant of Allah, do not mock me; I only have a *farq* of rice with you.” فقلت له انظر إلى تلك البقر اذهب فخذها قال يا عبد الله لا تستهزئ بي إنما لي عندك فرق من أرز
. You are telling me: Take … from the cows.
He said, “Go and take them, for those cows are from that *farq*.” قال اذهب فخذها فإنما تلك البقر من ذاك الفرق
. He says here in his supplication
If you know, O Allah, that I did that hoping for Your mercy and fearing Your punishment, then relieve us. فإن كنت تعلم أني فعلت ذلك رجاء رحمتك وخشية عذابك فافرج عنا
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. So he accepted that. He says
I said, “Take all of this, even though I could have given him only his original wage.” فقلت خذ هذا كله ولو شئت لم أعطه إلا أجره الأول
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:371
. This is a very important point. The man left his wage with him, which was a *farq* of rice, and did not agree with him … with the blessing of Allah Mighty and Majestic in this money. So he returned to ask for his right. What is the right? A *farq* of rice. He says: I gave you all that I saved from this *farq*, and if I had wished, I would not have given him anything but his right, meaning this *farq*. Meaning, he was able to not give him what he had saved for him in this long period, but he saw from his own generosity that he should offer him all that resulted from that first money. So he says
If you know, O Allah, that I did that فإن كنت اللهم تعلم أني فعلت ذلك
. There he says
seeking Your pleasure. ابتغاء مرضاتك
. Here he says
hoping for Your mercy and fearing Your punishment, then relieve us. So the stone was removed and they walked out. رجاء رحمتك وخشية عذابك فافرج عنا فزال الحجر وخرجوا يتماشون
Sahih Ibn Hibban 7:292
. Ibn Hibban narrated it in his Sahih with this wording, and in it, as you saw, are some benefits that were not mentioned in the hadith of Ibn 'Umar. And in the next lesson, if Allah wills, there are other hadiths in this chapter. So we suffice with this amount, and praise be to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Source alathar.net

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