I said that spending on one’s family is among the best forms of charity, so what about the one who prioritizes the poor over himself and his family?

The Shaykh : He said: I said that spending on one’s family is among the best forms of charity, so what about the one who prefers the poor and the needy over himself and his family, even if they are in need? That is, in need. Is that not the best?
This is if it is a temporary situation, if it is temporary, such as a guest coming to you or something similar. But as a regular practice, the best is what you spend on yourself and your family.