The Ruling on an Invitation That Contains Evil and Which Invitation Takes Precedence

Question:
If the invitation contains evils?

Answer:
One who is able to forbid the evil should attend, and one who is not able to forbid the evil should not attend.
Q: The statement of Ibn 'Umar—may Allah keep you safe—while he was fasting..?
The Shaykh: Just as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: This is how Muslim narrated it in the Sahih. One should accept the invitation even if he is fasting, then say to them: "Forgive me, I am fasting," and leave, or break his fast if it was voluntary and eat with them.
Q: If one of the two inviters is a relative, and the other..
The Shaykh: If two inviters coincide, one should accept the invitation of the one who invited first.
Q: Even if he is a relative?
The Shaykh: Even if he is a relative, one accepts the invitation of the one who invited first, whether he is a relative or not; the one who invited first has the stronger right.
Q: Is there a distinction in the obligation between a wedding invitation and a non-wedding invitation?
The Shaykh: The apparent evidence indicates that it is obligatory. In the hadith, Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "O Messenger of Allah, if two inviters coincide, which one should I accept?" He said: "To whichever one is more generous?" He said: And in the hadith: Even if there is weakness in its chain, the meaning is correct. So if one of them invited first, one accepts the invitation of the one who invited first; if they are equal, one accepts the invitation of the one whose door is closer.