The reader: The author (may Allah have mercy on him) quoted:
"And from Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: Anas told that when the Prophet came upon a woman weeping at a grave he said, "Fear God and show endurance.” She, not recognising him, replied, "Go away, for you have not been afflicted as I have.” She was told that he was the Prophet, so she went to his door, and finding no doorkeepers there she said, "I did not recognise you." He replied, "Endurance is shown only at the first blow.” (Bukharl and Muslim.)
مَرَّ النبيُ صلى الله عليه وسلم على امرأة تبكي عند قبر فقال : اتقي الله واصبري ، فقالت : إليك عني فإنك لم تصب بمصيبتي ، ولم تعرفه ، فقيل لها : إنه النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ، فأتت باب النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فلم تجد عنده بوابين ، فقالت : لم أعرفك ، فقال : إنما الصبر عند الصدمة الأولى She was weeping over a boy of hers.
تبكي على صبي لها
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