Ruling on taking something from the household necessities without the father's permission

Question:
If our father bought us some items for the house, and our mother is in charge of them, and my brothers and I took from them without her knowledge, what is the ruling on that?

Answer:
If you are in separate houses, you have no right to take anything except with the father's permission, because he bought it for his house. The mother does not give you anything except with his permission, unless you know that he allows it and has no objection to it; in that case, there is no harm. So if he bought meat for his house, do not take anything from it, or fruit for the house, do not take anything except with his permission, whether explicit or customary, if it is known among you that he is lenient and does not mind this matter; then there is no harm. Otherwise, you have no right to proceed to take this thing that he bought for his house, and which is with his wife or his young family, while you are in separate houses. Do not take anything from it except with his permission.
The mother is likewise; she does not give you anything except with his permission, unless there is a known permission from your father, an explicit permission, or one indicated by the circumstances, and it is known from his state and leniency that he does not object to something being taken from this item. If this is known, then there is no harm.

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