The manner of interaction between husband and wife

Question:
Your Eminence! In the early stages of married life, each spouse wants to assert their personality in front of the other. What is the guidance, Your Eminence?

Answer:
It is obligatory to attend to this matter without affectation. He should improve his character, and she should improve her character. He should improve his character, feel secure with her, and treat her with good companionship through kind words, a good manner, and intercourse according to what is easy, and likewise in the bed. Good character, not frowning, and not scowling... a relaxed face, and kind words. And when he enters the home, likewise, and when he sits with them, likewise, and in the bed even more so. He should meet the needs of the home without extravagance or stinginess, according to the customs of people like her and her family. This is how it should be. He should be patient, seeking what is appropriate in their livelihood, and in his character with her and her family; because that is closer to establishing harmony between them.

The presenter : May Allah reward you with good, and may He do you good.