Does a woman sin by angering her husband during a discussion between them?
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Question:
He also asks and says: Sometimes there are disagreements and heated discussions between the spouses, and the wife angers her husband. These discussions are usually about worldly matters. Does the woman sin by angering her husband? Please inform us; may Allah reward you.
Answer:
If she angers him without right, she sins, and it is not permissible for her to argue with him or hurt him with words. However, if she does so with right, such as when she rebukes him for a wrong, like if he is lax in prayer and she rebukes him, or if he drinks intoxicants and she rebukes and advises him, and he becomes angry, then she is rewarded, not sinful, but rather praiseworthy.
The point is that if she angers him with right, she is rewarded, and if she does so without right, she is sinful, and it is not permissible for her to anger him without right. She must speak kindly and listen and obey in what is right. But if he is committing sins and she rebukes him, advises him, and directs him to good, it is obligatory for him to accept it from her, thank her, and not become angry, because she is doing good, is rewarded, and is advising him. Her reward is that he should love her more and thank her for it. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you.
He also asks and says: Sometimes there are disagreements and heated discussions between the spouses, and the wife angers her husband. These discussions are usually about worldly matters. Does the woman sin by angering her husband? Please inform us; may Allah reward you.
Answer:
If she angers him without right, she sins, and it is not permissible for her to argue with him or hurt him with words. However, if she does so with right, such as when she rebukes him for a wrong, like if he is lax in prayer and she rebukes him, or if he drinks intoxicants and she rebukes and advises him, and he becomes angry, then she is rewarded, not sinful, but rather praiseworthy.
The point is that if she angers him with right, she is rewarded, and if she does so without right, she is sinful, and it is not permissible for her to anger him without right. She must speak kindly and listen and obey in what is right. But if he is committing sins and she rebukes him, advises him, and directs him to good, it is obligatory for him to accept it from her, thank her, and not become angry, because she is doing good, is rewarded, and is advising him. Her reward is that he should love her more and thank her for it. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you.
Source
binbaz.org.sa
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