Does one who disavows the wailing over him escape from sin?

Question:
If a person says before his death: "If you perform wailing over me, I am innocent of you," will he actually be innocent?

Answer:
We hope for him that, as mentioned previously, we hope for him, and the sin is upon them. However, it is not permissible for them, ever, to do that, nor to say, "Since he has disavowed us, the sin is upon us; we are content for the sin to be upon us." That is not permissible, because it is feared that harm from them may reach him, due to the generality of the hadiths concerning the punishment of a person for the wailing of his family over him. But as for the one who forbade them and warned them, and said, "I am innocent of you and of your actions," it is hoped that he will be safe. However, it is absolutely not permissible for them; wailing is absolutely forbidden for them.

The presenter: May Allah reward you with good.