Problems arose between me and my family because of my wife, so I told my brother, "If you continue to be angry with me and put pressure on my wife, then I am divorcing her."
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The questioner : The problem has been going on for three months, so I don't know, meaning, is my wife lawful for me or not? Up to now, I don't know, so I said I would go to the muftis and such, and I don't know, meaning, what is my status?
The Shaykh : Did you receive an official fatwa or not?
The questioner : I received a fatwa, but sir, everything was, meaning, a mess. My mental state was, meaning, unwell. I was confused within myself, so I don't know, meaning, exactly what happened?
The Shaykh : Did you act upon the fatwa you received?
The questioner : I went to the mufti of "Zarqa."
The Shaykh : Answer the question.
The questioner: Yes, my master.
The Shaykh: May Allah forgive you.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Did you act upon the fatwa you received?
The questioner : What do you mean, act upon it?
The Shaykh : I mean: did you implement it?
The questioner : The fatwa was not, sir!
The Shaykh : May Allah guide you. Answer the question; do you want me to ask the question a second time?
The questioner : No, I did not implement it, because I remained afraid of it!
The Shaykh : And you are truthful in what you say, if Allah wills; that you did not implement it.
The questioner : I did not implement it, because, sir, I was, meaning, listening and feeling that I... or, meaning, I don't know correctly.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The questioner : I mean!
The Shaykh : My brother, there is a saying in some countries: "A word and its cover." So I am asking you, did you implement this fatwa or not?
The questioner : I did not implement it.
The Shaykh : So either you implemented it or you did not?
The questioner : Yes, I did not implement it because...
The Shaykh : I do not want a long speech. I am asking you, did you implement it or not? The answer: I implemented it, I did not implement it. What is your answer?
The questioner : Yes, I did not implement it.
The Shaykh : Okay, what is the problem?
The questioner : The problem is that I uttered the divorce in front of my brother in a moment of anger, meaning, and based on this, it led to many conversations, meaning, things that happened, so I was, meaning, I became unable to get to the bottom of anything, meaning, or I became to forget something or remember something, so it was, meaning, such a thing happened. I went to this mufti and that mufti!
The Shaykh : Before you went to the mufti, tell me how the incident happened?
The questioner : This time, I told my brother: If you want to, meaning, keep making me angry like this, or if you are, meaning, putting pressure on my wife and on me, meaning, pressuring us, meaning, I am done, I am divorcing her. So I was, meaning, not sure of this, meaning, at the time of speaking, and I told him: I am divorcing her. So I don't know, meaning, what happened, and many conversations happened after this, meaning, a lot, and there was confusion, meaning, I don't know!
The Shaykh : Okay, how long have you been married?
The questioner : Meaning, a period of ten months.
The Shaykh : Ten months?
The questioner : And with her family, it has been six months.
The Shaykh : No problem, a word, a word and its cover. The best speech is what is brief and clear.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Have you been married for ten months?
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Okay, did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : Before?
The Shaykh: Huh?
The questioner : I don’t remember.
The Shaykh: Huh?
The questioner : I don’t remember.
The Shaykh : No, what?
The questioner : Meaning, before I married her?
The Shaykh : There is no power or strength except with Allah! My brother, in the ten months of your marriage, did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : In front of her, meaning?
The Shaykh : Allah is sufficient for me, and He is the best Disposer of affairs! In front of her or behind her.
Another questioner : Did you utter the divorce?
The Shaykh : Before this incident, did a divorce occur from you? It does not concern me whether it was in front of her or behind her, in the presence of someone or not. We do not enter into these details now. Did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : I am, sir, a bit confused, meaning, within myself!
The Shaykh : Excuse me, I am unable to answer you.
The Shaykh : Did you receive an official fatwa or not?
The questioner : I received a fatwa, but sir, everything was, meaning, a mess. My mental state was, meaning, unwell. I was confused within myself, so I don't know, meaning, exactly what happened?
The Shaykh : Did you act upon the fatwa you received?
The questioner : I went to the mufti of "Zarqa."
The Shaykh : Answer the question.
The questioner: Yes, my master.
The Shaykh: May Allah forgive you.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Did you act upon the fatwa you received?
The questioner : What do you mean, act upon it?
The Shaykh : I mean: did you implement it?
The questioner : The fatwa was not, sir!
The Shaykh : May Allah guide you. Answer the question; do you want me to ask the question a second time?
The questioner : No, I did not implement it, because I remained afraid of it!
The Shaykh : And you are truthful in what you say, if Allah wills; that you did not implement it.
The questioner : I did not implement it, because, sir, I was, meaning, listening and feeling that I... or, meaning, I don't know correctly.
The Shaykh : And upon you be peace, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.
The questioner : I mean!
The Shaykh : My brother, there is a saying in some countries: "A word and its cover." So I am asking you, did you implement this fatwa or not?
The questioner : I did not implement it.
The Shaykh : So either you implemented it or you did not?
The questioner : Yes, I did not implement it because...
The Shaykh : I do not want a long speech. I am asking you, did you implement it or not? The answer: I implemented it, I did not implement it. What is your answer?
The questioner : Yes, I did not implement it.
The Shaykh : Okay, what is the problem?
The questioner : The problem is that I uttered the divorce in front of my brother in a moment of anger, meaning, and based on this, it led to many conversations, meaning, things that happened, so I was, meaning, I became unable to get to the bottom of anything, meaning, or I became to forget something or remember something, so it was, meaning, such a thing happened. I went to this mufti and that mufti!
The Shaykh : Before you went to the mufti, tell me how the incident happened?
The questioner : This time, I told my brother: If you want to, meaning, keep making me angry like this, or if you are, meaning, putting pressure on my wife and on me, meaning, pressuring us, meaning, I am done, I am divorcing her. So I was, meaning, not sure of this, meaning, at the time of speaking, and I told him: I am divorcing her. So I don't know, meaning, what happened, and many conversations happened after this, meaning, a lot, and there was confusion, meaning, I don't know!
The Shaykh : Okay, how long have you been married?
The questioner : Meaning, a period of ten months.
The Shaykh : Ten months?
The questioner : And with her family, it has been six months.
The Shaykh : No problem, a word, a word and its cover. The best speech is what is brief and clear.
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Have you been married for ten months?
The questioner: Yes.
The Shaykh : Okay, did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : Before?
The Shaykh: Huh?
The questioner : I don’t remember.
The Shaykh: Huh?
The questioner : I don’t remember.
The Shaykh : No, what?
The questioner : Meaning, before I married her?
The Shaykh : There is no power or strength except with Allah! My brother, in the ten months of your marriage, did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : In front of her, meaning?
The Shaykh : Allah is sufficient for me, and He is the best Disposer of affairs! In front of her or behind her.
Another questioner : Did you utter the divorce?
The Shaykh : Before this incident, did a divorce occur from you? It does not concern me whether it was in front of her or behind her, in the presence of someone or not. We do not enter into these details now. Did you previously divorce her?
The questioner : I am, sir, a bit confused, meaning, within myself!
The Shaykh : Excuse me, I am unable to answer you.
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