What is the ruling if a man calls his wife to him in her parents' house, for example?
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The questioner : If a man calls his wife to him in other than...
The Shaykh : In what?
The questioner : in other than his bed...
The Shaykh : The ruling is the same, the ruling is the same. Mentioning the bed is based on the most common case, yes. I mean, if a man calls his wife to this in other than his bed, such as if he has stayed as a guest with his relatives or something similar, then the ruling is the same. But mentioning the bed is based on the most common case, yes.
The reader: But may Allah reward you, this embarrasses the women.
The Shaykh : Yes
The reader: This is embarrassing for the woman, O Shaykh, that is to say...
The Shaykh : Of course, it is not good for him to be at ease and say, "Come on, let's go to the room." But if a room has been prepared for him and his wife in the hosts' house, what is the...
The reader: She is shy, for example, that he might see the effect of the ghusl on her.
The Shaykh : No, no, absolutely not. The ruling is the same, and there is no shyness, yes. In such a case, she can say to him, "By Allah, we are shy in front of people." But, praise be to Allah, most houses nowadays have bathrooms and are private, and so on. But if she says this to him, he may be convinced and not get angry with her, yes.
The Shaykh : In what?
The questioner : in other than his bed...
The Shaykh : The ruling is the same, the ruling is the same. Mentioning the bed is based on the most common case, yes. I mean, if a man calls his wife to this in other than his bed, such as if he has stayed as a guest with his relatives or something similar, then the ruling is the same. But mentioning the bed is based on the most common case, yes.
The reader: But may Allah reward you, this embarrasses the women.
The Shaykh : Yes
The reader: This is embarrassing for the woman, O Shaykh, that is to say...
The Shaykh : Of course, it is not good for him to be at ease and say, "Come on, let's go to the room." But if a room has been prepared for him and his wife in the hosts' house, what is the...
The reader: She is shy, for example, that he might see the effect of the ghusl on her.
The Shaykh : No, no, absolutely not. The ruling is the same, and there is no shyness, yes. In such a case, she can say to him, "By Allah, we are shy in front of people." But, praise be to Allah, most houses nowadays have bathrooms and are private, and so on. But if she says this to him, he may be convinced and not get angry with her, yes.