If a woman makes a condition when she refuses her husband's bed, is this permissible?
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The questioner : Shaykh, may Allah forgive you, if a woman makes a condition, if she refuses but she conditions that she will get this thing, does that count as refusal?
The Shaykh : There is no doubt, whenever he wants that, she says: Give me this!
The questioner : But she is threatening, O Shaykh, I mean.
The Shaykh : Even if the conditions are met, if she says: This one in front of you, pour me water, give me the cup, and he says: No, Glory be to Allah, may Allah not afflict you, O Muhammad.
The questioner : Shaykh, in the previous hadith:Sunan Abi Dawud 2161Sahih (Al-Albani) : The hadith is not clear evidence for uncovering the 'awrah, or perhaps it is intended?
The Shaykh : Yes, but we say: intention does not exist except at the decisive act. Then, we did not mention that it is definitely so; there is a possibility that it is not. But there are explicit hadiths that a man with his family may be naked, and there is no blame on him, except for a sheet.
The questioner : Before intercourse.
The Shaykh : Huh?
The questioner : Before intercourse.
The Shaykh : Yes, there is a possibility that it is before, yes.
Praise be to Allah, and may Allah send prayers and blessings upon our Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and his Companions, and those who follow them in excellence until the Day of Judgment. And I ask Allah to make us all among those who follow them in excellence:
The author (may Allah have mercy on him) says, in what he transmitted from Ibn 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both), that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the woman who tattoos
The questioner : The benefits of the hadith from Ibn 'Umar.
The Shaykh : Yes, we will take it, if Allah wills, later.
The Shaykh : There is no doubt, whenever he wants that, she says: Give me this!
The questioner : But she is threatening, O Shaykh, I mean.
The Shaykh : Even if the conditions are met, if she says: This one in front of you, pour me water, give me the cup, and he says: No, Glory be to Allah, may Allah not afflict you, O Muhammad.
The questioner : Shaykh, in the previous hadith:
who means to have intercourse with his wife
إذا أراد أن يأتي أهلهThe Shaykh : Yes, but we say: intention does not exist except at the decisive act. Then, we did not mention that it is definitely so; there is a possibility that it is not. But there are explicit hadiths that a man with his family may be naked, and there is no blame on him, except for a sheet.
The questioner : Before intercourse.
The Shaykh : Huh?
The questioner : Before intercourse.
The Shaykh : Yes, there is a possibility that it is before, yes.
Praise be to Allah, and may Allah send prayers and blessings upon our Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and his Companions, and those who follow them in excellence until the Day of Judgment. And I ask Allah to make us all among those who follow them in excellence:
The author (may Allah have mercy on him) says, in what he transmitted from Ibn 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both), that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the woman who tattoos
The questioner : The benefits of the hadith from Ibn 'Umar.
The Shaykh : Yes, we will take it, if Allah wills, later.