Guidance for a woman suffering from the harm of her husband's father
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Question:
A sister from al-Qasim, Umm Khalid, says: O His Eminence the Shaykh, my husband and I always agree on everything, and we are living a happy family life. However, my uncle, my husband's father, speaks about me with injustice and aggression, and he commits acts of oppression. I advise him and ask him to be calm and not speak about me. I should mention that I have a hearing impairment and do not hear most of what my uncle, my husband's father, says. However, I receive an interpretation of his words from my husband and my neighbors, and he is a suspicious man. Is this suspicion forbidden? I always pray for him, and I respond to his ill-treatment with kindness. Please, Your Eminence, point out the danger of that.
Answer:
What you did is what is prescribed. May Allah reward you with good. Stick to this, forgive him, and advise him. Respond to him with good words. I advise your husband and others to advise him so that he will stop transgressing against you. If he transgresses, the sin is upon him. You will be rewarded for your good words and good response. Be happy with good news. The sin is upon him if he wrongs you and transgresses against you; the sin is upon him. As for you, you are rewarded and thanked for your patience, seeking reward from Allah, and your good response. May Allah bless you. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you with good, O honorable Shaykh.
A sister from al-Qasim, Umm Khalid, says: O His Eminence the Shaykh, my husband and I always agree on everything, and we are living a happy family life. However, my uncle, my husband's father, speaks about me with injustice and aggression, and he commits acts of oppression. I advise him and ask him to be calm and not speak about me. I should mention that I have a hearing impairment and do not hear most of what my uncle, my husband's father, says. However, I receive an interpretation of his words from my husband and my neighbors, and he is a suspicious man. Is this suspicion forbidden? I always pray for him, and I respond to his ill-treatment with kindness. Please, Your Eminence, point out the danger of that.
Answer:
What you did is what is prescribed. May Allah reward you with good. Stick to this, forgive him, and advise him. Respond to him with good words. I advise your husband and others to advise him so that he will stop transgressing against you. If he transgresses, the sin is upon him. You will be rewarded for your good words and good response. Be happy with good news. The sin is upon him if he wrongs you and transgresses against you; the sin is upon him. As for you, you are rewarded and thanked for your patience, seeking reward from Allah, and your good response. May Allah bless you. Yes.
The presenter: May Allah reward you with good, O honorable Shaykh.
Source
binbaz.org.sa
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