The wife must strive to control her self in order to obey her husband
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The third question of Fatwa No. ( 3515 )
Q3: I am a married woman of two years, a student of knowledge, and I am still with my family. I have given birth to a daughter during this time. However, I hate my husband at times. How many times have I said to myself: I will not do this again. But at that annoying time, I do it and regret it. But what use is regret when the time has passed? My question now: What do I do with this husband? Knowing that he has not done anything to me and has not angered me with anything, except when I do that.
A3: Fear Allah, strive to control your self, and be good to your husband in his treatment. Take care of him in preserving his honor, wealth, and children. Fulfill his rights. Seek help from Allah to fulfill his rights, then through patience, prayer, reciting the Qur'an, and the remembrance of Allah with what is established from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) of the adhkar. And seek refuge in Allah that He will guide you to fulfill what Allah has prescribed of his rights and the rights of His servants. And remember the bad end of one who wrongs and does not treat well. We ask Allah to expand your chest for the truth.
And success is from Allah, and may Allah send prayers and blessings upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and his Companions.
Q3: I am a married woman of two years, a student of knowledge, and I am still with my family. I have given birth to a daughter during this time. However, I hate my husband at times. How many times have I said to myself: I will not do this again. But at that annoying time, I do it and regret it. But what use is regret when the time has passed? My question now: What do I do with this husband? Knowing that he has not done anything to me and has not angered me with anything, except when I do that.
A3: Fear Allah, strive to control your self, and be good to your husband in his treatment. Take care of him in preserving his honor, wealth, and children. Fulfill his rights. Seek help from Allah to fulfill his rights, then through patience, prayer, reciting the Qur'an, and the remembrance of Allah with what is established from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) of the adhkar. And seek refuge in Allah that He will guide you to fulfill what Allah has prescribed of his rights and the rights of His servants. And remember the bad end of one who wrongs and does not treat well. We ask Allah to expand your chest for the truth.
And success is from Allah, and may Allah send prayers and blessings upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and his Companions.
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