Is it true that if a woman spends the night while her husband is angry with her, the angels curse her until morning?
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The questioner : Is it true that if a woman spends the night while her husband is angry with her, the angels curse her until morning?
The Shaykh : Yes, it is true. It is not permissible for a woman to spend the night while her husband is displeased with her. If she does so, she incurs this warning, but on the condition that his anger is due to her neglecting an obligation incumbent upon her. The hadith the questioner referred to states:Bulugh al-Maram 8:66.
However, if he is angry with her without a reason, but he is a man who is quick to anger and gets angry at his wife when she does not do as he pleases, even though she has not failed in her duty to him, then none of this warning applies to her.
The Shaykh : Yes, it is true. It is not permissible for a woman to spend the night while her husband is displeased with her. If she does so, she incurs this warning, but on the condition that his anger is due to her neglecting an obligation incumbent upon her. The hadith the questioner referred to states:
When a man calls his wife to come to his bed (for marital relations), and she refuses to come, and he spends the night in anger, the angels curse her till the morning.
إذا دعا الرجل امرأته إلى فراشه فأبت أن تجيء لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبحHowever, if he is angry with her without a reason, but he is a man who is quick to anger and gets angry at his wife when she does not do as he pleases, even though she has not failed in her duty to him, then none of this warning applies to her.