From Zaynab bint Umm Salama, who said: “A close relative of Umm Habiba passed away, so she called for saffron and wiped her arms with it, saying: I only do this because I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) say: It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to observe mourning for a deceased person for more than three days, except for her husband: four months and ten days.”
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The reciter: From Zaynab bint Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with them both), who said
The Shaykh : It is not clear, it is not clear.
The reciter: From Zaynab bint Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with them both), who said:.
The Shaykh : Ihdad means abstaining from adornment, perfume, and beautiful clothes, and this is not permissible except for a husband for the duration of the waiting period, which is four months and ten days, or less or more depending on the waiting period.
As for ihdad for someone other than a husband, there is no harm in it for a period of four months and ten days only, meaning for the duration of the waiting period.
So, ihdad, if it is for a husband, is according to the duration of the waiting period for death. Yes, if, yes, if it is for a husband who died, it is according to the duration of the waiting period for death.
And if it is for someone other than a husband, it has been permitted for the woman to observe ihdad for only three days so that the sadness and harm in her heart may pass. And Allah (Blessed and Exalted is He) loves to mend broken hearts, hearts broken for His sake. Yes.
The Shaykh : It is not clear, it is not clear.
The reciter: From Zaynab bint Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with them both), who said:
A close relative of Umm Habiba passed away, so she called for saffron and wiped her arms with it, saying: I only do this because I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) say: It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to observe mourning for a deceased person for more than three days, except for her husband: four months and ten days.
توفي حميم لأم حبيبة ، فدعت بصفرة ، فمسحت بذراعيها ، فقالت : إنما أصنع هذا ، لأني سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول : لا يحل لامرأة تؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر أن تحد على ميت فوق ثلاث إلا على زوج : أربعة أشهر وعشراThe Shaykh : Ihdad means abstaining from adornment, perfume, and beautiful clothes, and this is not permissible except for a husband for the duration of the waiting period, which is four months and ten days, or less or more depending on the waiting period.
As for ihdad for someone other than a husband, there is no harm in it for a period of four months and ten days only, meaning for the duration of the waiting period.
So, ihdad, if it is for a husband, is according to the duration of the waiting period for death. Yes, if, yes, if it is for a husband who died, it is according to the duration of the waiting period for death.
And if it is for someone other than a husband, it has been permitted for the woman to observe ihdad for only three days so that the sadness and harm in her heart may pass. And Allah (Blessed and Exalted is He) loves to mend broken hearts, hearts broken for His sake. Yes.